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Dionne, 45

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About Me

This portion, like me, is a work in progress. I am going through a rough patch (the bald head should make that pretty obvious:-)). However, cancer has taught me that my prior belief that I was happy being single & doing my own thing was wrong. I want a long lasting relationship. I want someone to grow old with. I want a partner, someone to walk beside me, someone to make me laugh, someone to share things with, etc. I want someone that challenges me to be a better person. I want someone that nicely points out a different way of looking at things. It should go without saying that I want someone that is honest, hardworking, monogamous, self sufficient, etc, but some of people seem to have difficulty with these things. So, I'll just say up front, I am not willing to tolerate lying, cheating, or paying for everything. I want to be treated like the lady that I am. That does not mean that I expect my man to pay for everything or shower me roses/gifts. I enjoy being a lazy bum, but I also like exploring new places, hiking, camping, playing softball, walking around the neighborhood, sitting by a fire with friends, etc. I love to be on or near the water, but not so much being in it. I also enjoy crocheting, sewing, & other crafts. I like to read, mainly murder/detective mysteries. I also enjoy keeping up with what my kids are reading, so I also read about teenage vampires and the Diary of a Wimpy Kid. My kids are a huge part of my life. We tend to function as one big unit - making decisions together & doing things together. We do enjoy doing things together, which is amazing since two of them are teenagers. We also love getting in the car & Something else we find to be a lot of fun is Geocaching. If you like puzzles & being outside, then you should give this hobby a try! I would love to find someone to go and have fun with when my kids are gone. And hopefully find my forever friend. This part is hard, cuz like most people I am cautious & want to meet in a public place (so if one of us is an ax murderer lots of folks will be traumatized by the violence) and it should be some sort of brief activity so that if either one of us wants to make a quick escape it won't seem so rude, cuz being polite to strangers is super important. Did I mention I am a smart ass? And I love sarcasm, too.I think the second date is more important. It's the one where we've both decided that there is a spark, a possibility, maybe even butterflies. I think this date should be something neither of us have done before, but both have always wanted to do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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