SIMILAR PEOPLE
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LessieOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
** I'm getting some very nasty messages, in regards to messages I don't reply back. I've been called stuck-up, told I think I'm too good for this site, and a couple of not nice things.. 1. I don't log on here every single day. Give me time. 2. I have found that it's best to not reply at all, if not interested. I did reply to every single message with a polite reply.. and many men took that as encouragement, and not as "Thanks.. but, no thanks." 3. Vulgar messages will get you blocked.. immediately. Be a gentleman. 4. I don't date outside my race. Just my preference of attraction.. no other reason.**Ok.. This is my third time here, but I've never really given this site a fair chance. I usually delete after a couple of weeks. Not sure I'm comfortable being here or if I'll stay this time. We'll see. I didn't have a great experience here last time, but that was something really weird. But, what the hell? Life's about chances. I've just turned 45 and I'm divorced with three kids.. all over 18. They do their own thing. Being single for the last four years, has definitely been a time of self reflection, self awareness, self discovery.. It's been a slap in the face at times and wonderful at times. I went thru the kinda really sad stage- thinking I'd been dealt a raw deal in life and how unfair it was, how I'd be alone forever.. thinking I was the only one to ever be in that position. Of course, that was bullshit. I went thru the panic stage of thinking I had to have a date.. every weekend. Wrong. I went thru the I'm not gonna date again.. I don't need a man. Kinda true. I don't "need" one, but I want and desire one. I want him to be my best friend, as well as my lover. I desire someone to share things with.. for them to introduce me to their world and things they enjoy and are passionate about and them mine. Most of all, I've became comfortable and confident in my own skin.. with me. I like me, although I can always use some improvements. I love to travel, go out and do things.. especially dive bars and live bands. But, I also enjoy museums, movies, hiking. I love reading and can lose myself in a book for hours. I think rainy days are romantic and rainy nights are sexy. I try to exercise daily, but I don't love it. I fight weight and have lost over 50 lbs. I fight it daily. I love to cook, and I'm pretty good at it. I love to be barefoot and just hang out. But, I love dressing up and going out, too. I appreciate all genres of music. I love rock concerts, folk, and blues. I like a lot of musical artists that aren't really the norm. I try to be nice and tolerant to everyone. I don't care for anger and yelling. But, I do realize everyone is human. I'm not really interested in your bank account.. but, in your mind.. heart.. soul. The things that matter. I believe if you take time to find out about those things.. you'll have a true understanding of who each other are. From there.. respect, friendship, lots of fun and maybe even love grows stronger. I believe in giving as much as receiving, and having a mutual respect for one another as well as a true interest.Oh.. men seem to ask if women have went out with anyone from here. I have. I only agreed to meet two. I'm great friends and hang out with one, i just didn't feel attracted to him. The other I liked a lot, and was very attracted to, but a series of strange things happened. Long story. Neither, are on meetville now. Surprises are great.
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JoannOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
-football---my family and house are there. :) While plans could change--I was originally planning to be here for two years and I am starting my fifth--it seems disingenuous to claim that I want to get married next week when my future residency is unsure. So...I would love to date. Even exclusively. But don't be angry if I won't agree to live here forever on our second evening out.I am currently teaching reading at the college level and loving it. I am also working on an Ed.D degree, so I work hard to enjoy my free time! I enjoy sharing new adventures with others--my last escapade was firewalking. I love snorkeling, roller coasters and art galleries, live theatre and local bands, cooking for friends and visiting with family, sharing a new book, debating new ideas and anything that challenges me to expand my horizons. I feel most relaxed near the water and can enjoy an evening of silliness and dancing as easily as a great movie or stimulating debate. I am hoping to find a responsible AND fun-loving individual. You don't need to buy me a gourmet dinner, but you should be able to foot your part of the bill. You should be able/willing to start the weekend without plans and enjoy whatever eventuates. I enjoy debate and discussion--I speak my mind and expect others to do the same. I would love to meet someone who has a CLUE about major authors, artists, and intellectual ideas. (That sure sounds harsh, but I hope you know what I mean!) I feel most at peace near the ocean and would love to find someone who shares my affinity for the beach.If I am busy, it is not personal. I teach and study and tutor and have friends. I have a couple evenings a week that I would love to spend with the right person, but I don't need to talk to you four times a day to make sure that we still like each other.If you are up for exploring--with a friend who could become more--I hope you will drop me a line. ummmmmmmm...how about we decide this one together. Start with a beverage and see where the evening goes.
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VeraOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I am a Big Woman with a big Heart. Looking for someone special to spend time with. Looking for someone who is honest, caring and faithful. Not into games.