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Lila, 41

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About Me

I was married for 8 years..divorced for 2 yrs...have dated long and short term...am ready for the real deal.I am a healthy and fit mom of 2 girls...I love being a stay at home mom(happy to have the freedom to have me time and do all the daily..)..I live a very balanced life...very low key..looking to turn it up a notch with the right man..friendship first...and see how things unravel...About me...I am naturally pretty...love being casual...spandex(black workout pants)...jeans...t shirts/tanks....love wknd getaways..n more...I am honest loyal profile and pics are true expect the same...I am looking for a real relationship and not into casual hook ups and dating lots of people..rather just find the one and get off this site...i am polished..educated..enjoy fine dining at times...seeking same type of man..and have no tatoos(like to keep it this way..)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rosie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I belong to God and I like to spend time with Him. I'm independent, honest, down-to-earth, a life long learner, love to laugh, talk, and listen. I usually speak my mind, but can be shy, at first. I've been told that I'm smart, beautiful, perceptive, loving, and thoughtful. I'm looking for a man who also belongs to God, truly lives his faith, only has eyes for me & can make me laugh, takes care of himself, but doesn't live at the gym, likes to cook, read, and learn, doesn't mind sharing in the everyday things of life, can be a shoulder to lean on and isn't afraid to share his own feelings. Someone who isn't stuck on himself, knows and can admit to his mistakes, offers and receives forgiveness and understanding, knows a relationship takes work and is willing to put forth the effort required. Let's make a "date"!SoOo...ya wanna meet me? Now message me. ;)Also, I'm not against a bit of light drinking, but if you drink more than ***times a year, I probably would prefer you pass me by. My son was born with a chronic liver disease and is on the transplant list. Because of this, he must never drink and I honor him by not drinking or allowing alcohol in my house.Alright guys, who's gonna be the bold honest one and tell me what is so scary about me? Y'all wanna meet, some of ya even get brave enough to send me a message or two, but not one of ya has actually met me. Y'all are frustrating people; I almost deleted my profile a few days ago. What is up??? A great first date might be to find an incredible restaurant where we can relax, talk and not feel rushed. There's always the local coffee shop, Top This or some other frozen yogurt place, a movie might be fun, but not exactly the place to get to know someone.

  • Joann

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    -football---my family and house are there. :) While plans could change--I was originally planning to be here for two years and I am starting my fifth--it seems disingenuous to claim that I want to get married next week when my future residency is unsure. So...I would love to date. Even exclusively. But don't be angry if I won't agree to live here forever on our second evening out.I am currently teaching reading at the college level and loving it. I am also working on an Ed.D degree, so I work hard to enjoy my free time! I enjoy sharing new adventures with others--my last escapade was firewalking. I love snorkeling, roller coasters and art galleries, live theatre and local bands, cooking for friends and visiting with family, sharing a new book, debating new ideas and anything that challenges me to expand my horizons. I feel most relaxed near the water and can enjoy an evening of silliness and dancing as easily as a great movie or stimulating debate. I am hoping to find a responsible AND fun-loving individual. You don't need to buy me a gourmet dinner, but you should be able to foot your part of the bill. You should be able/willing to start the weekend without plans and enjoy whatever eventuates. I enjoy debate and discussion--I speak my mind and expect others to do the same. I would love to meet someone who has a CLUE about major authors, artists, and intellectual ideas. (That sure sounds harsh, but I hope you know what I mean!) I feel most at peace near the ocean and would love to find someone who shares my affinity for the beach.If I am busy, it is not personal. I teach and study and tutor and have friends. I have a couple evenings a week that I would love to spend with the right person, but I don't need to talk to you four times a day to make sure that we still like each other.If you are up for exploring--with a friend who could become more--I hope you will drop me a line. ummmmmmmm...how about we decide this one together. Start with a beverage and see where the evening goes.

  • Tameka

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a fairly laid back woman. I enjoy spending time with friends and family. I have a good sense of humor and love to laugh. I love to cook and consider myself a "foodie". I don't watch too much TV but I must admit I am so happy for the new season of SOA and I am thinking of planning an event around the new season premiere of Big Bang Theory. I love most types of music but I will tell you I almost never listen to country. Drinks? Dinner? We could go somewhere fun. Order drinks maybe an appetizer. Somewhere with some noise and fun but not screaming loud because I would love to talk. Enjoy your company and get to know you better.

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