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Lila, 41

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About Me

I was married for 8 years..divorced for 2 yrs...have dated long and short term...am ready for the real deal.I am a healthy and fit mom of 2 girls...I love being a stay at home mom(happy to have the freedom to have me time and do all the daily..)..I live a very balanced life...very low key..looking to turn it up a notch with the right man..friendship first...and see how things unravel...About me...I am naturally pretty...love being casual...spandex(black workout pants)...jeans...t shirts/tanks....love wknd getaways..n more...I am honest loyal profile and pics are true expect the same...I am looking for a real relationship and not into casual hook ups and dating lots of people..rather just find the one and get off this site...i am polished..educated..enjoy fine dining at times...seeking same type of man..and have no tatoos(like to keep it this way..)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kelli

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Why I called myself Girl Friday is beyond me when the last thing I want to do is work as a secretary in an office! It makes no sense except that I have always heard the term used on someone who is enthusiastic and good at doing many different things. That's what I was getting at, but now it's too late. "They" don't seem to let you change a profile title after it's created...So on that note....About me... I love music. I wish I had more friends who would pay the horrific prices it costs these days to see a show. Any show. I love it all, from the symphony to Metallica. I can even listen to some country, but it has to be the classics, like Willie, the ones that remind me of being on the old ranch with my parents and their friends, watching them dance and be funny after a day of searching for peacock feathers with my sister and playing with the horses. After my mother died a few years ago I quit my job in hopes of making the rest of my short existence here on earth more meaningful. I started a nonprofit organization for kids but quickly dismantled it because my true calling is with animals and nature so I ended up living on a chimpanzee sanctuary for two months. I've been a board member ever since and visit four times a year. Back home, I finally have a job in the animal world and will soon be meeting Dr. Jane Goodall. So very excited!But regarding this on line dating....I totally resist it yet find myself sitting here trying to figure out what to say to you all. I don't want to be on this computer. Would rather be out finishing sanding and staining my deck while the weather is so nice. I just moved to a new place and have been doing a lot of improvements. Problem is, it's a rental. Someday I would like to do this with the man of my dreams in the home we build together but until then...well, I tend to move around a lot and make where I am living beautiful.I want to meet someone who knows how to communicate (yes, that includes spelling and grammar), but more importantly, communicate well and often. Someone who values what they have and finds the positive in everything. Someone who does not settle. Someone who loves animals. Someone who thinks family and friends are important. Someone who loves to travel, see new places, go on adventures, and is spontaneous. Someone who is loyal and non-judgmental. Someone who is romantic and intimate yet with a kinky side. Someone who is in it for better or for worse, who knows getting through the tough times is worth it. O.K. enough! I guess I have to make contact with "someone" if this has any chance of working. Or if I have any chance of getting off this computer and enjoying the day. I hope you are enjoying it too and I wish you the best of luck in your search. Coffee to go and morning walk on the beach...

  • Liliana

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    A good relationship is one built on trust, respect, communication, and attention. I have been on here 4 years now, and I have been ready to throw in the towel quite a few times... But at this point, I have placed may trust in the good Lord above that he will bring me my Mr. Right. I will eventually find someone who is worth my time and effort, as I am there's. I am a good catch for the right person and I respect myself enough not to just settle. I am not looking for a Sugar Daddy and I hope you aren't looking for a Sugar Momma, because I am sorry but I don't play that game...so lets not waste each others time okay! :)A little about me: I have been divorced for over 4 years. I am a single parent to ***year old and have 100% custody. I am very open to your children if you have some; but unfortunately, I can no longer have anymore. If that bothers you, I understand. Also, my child is my everything and everything I do revolves around my child's happiness and then mine. So if you will have issues with that, please pass me on by. This should be every parents priority in my opinion, but you know what they say about opinions...lol I have held the same job for 19 plus years. I am not opposed to change, I actually like it if it is for the better. :) But I am huge on stability, family, and security. And I am looking for the same in my partner. I want to find the man I want to spend the rest of my life with rocking grandbabies and traveling....or just sitting on the front porch holding hands watching nature and talking about the good 'ole days! I would love to learn to fish and have been working on cooking healthier and exercising daily. I am happy in my day to day life, I would just like to find someone to share that happiness with. My child is getting more independent everyday and doesn't need me around ***like I am use too. :) I am interested in picking up a few new hobbies that we could enjoy doing together as well, especially as a family. Variety, spontaneity, and continuous learning is the key to happiness I think. I aspire to find my soulmate, someone who takes my breathe away and sweeps me off my feet! Yes, I love romance and I tend to be a very romantic person. I want to be able to look into your eyes, and know what you are thinking without you having to say a word and vice versa. As for the physical, looks aren't everything! But there has to be some kind of a spark or attraction between us, and sometimes that isn't found until we have met. So that being said, I really don't have a "type". To me it is the inside that matters the most. I am looking for my best friend....and lover. Someone that I think about and miss when he isn't around and someone that I also have that effect upon. What I am seeking in a man - Faithfulness, Honesty, Security, Best Friend, Loyalty, Family Oriented, Trustworthiness, Good father figure, Non-Violent, Good Temperament, Sense of Humor, Someone who will give me the attention I crave and spend quality time with me and my child. I want a family unit again someday, and someone whom I can enjoy doing anything with...because if you are with the right person you can find the joy in doing anything together. If you think you are a good match, please send me a message. I can't wait to hear from you! Public place, until we get to know each other better.

  • Brigitte

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a single mother of two. I am over all the games and lies. Ain't nobody got time for that. Dinner and maybe a movie . . . Somewhere we can talk and spend time learning about each other. . . A walk on the beach listening to the waves gently crashing on the sand.

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