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Ora, 39
United States, Massachusetts, Plymouth

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About Me

I am recently divorced and slowly re-entering the dating scene. It's a bit trickier than I remembered it! I am a bartender. I fancy myself a writer but, let's face it, a gals gotta eat! I have two English Bulldogs that rule with an iron paw! I value humor over almost all else and have a fairly wicked sense myself. I've tried standup before and intend to do so again. I like to write, paint, sing karaoke (but only if everyone listening is plastered.) I am kind to everyone and really can't tolerate hateful or overly morose people. I'm cheerful and would prefer to be around other cheerful folks! I am an avid reader and digest information well. I'm intelligent, witty, friendly and I seem to put people at ease. I'm trying to break out of my social scene "rut" to meet new people and it's been pretty fun so far. I want to finish a book I started and stalled on. I want to get more editing experience. I want to take up boxing and I want to know where I put my damned keys! I am extremely lucky to have a great number of friends. If we meet, they are likely to give me the third degree about you so, just be prepared to answer a few questions! One of my friends was freaked that I'd try the online dating thing. We were sitting at a bar and she was getting pretty blustery saying " but they could be a serial killer!" I pointed to a dude a few seats down and said "so could he. What difference does it make where I met them?" I'm fairly certain the guy wasn't a serial killer. At least not at this point in his life. I would very much appreciate if you weren't either! ;) Not to sound like a barfly but my first encounter with you will likely be in that setting. It's a comfort issue. There are people around but they will generally leave you alone and it's less intimate, which for a first meeting takes the pressure off! Now if we like each other and want to go on a real date, I enjoy long dinners with good wine, easy conversation and laughing. As for destinations, I'm pretty much game for anything. I like the zoo, for example! That being said, I don't handle excessive heat too well, so the next few months of summer agony should probably be spent in a pool or central air condition.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

INTERESTS

Skiing German Greek Irish Middle Eastern Action History Horror Western
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