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About Me

I am recently divorced and slowly re-entering the dating scene. It's a bit trickier than I remembered it! I am a bartender. I fancy myself a writer but, let's face it, a gals gotta eat! I have two English Bulldogs that rule with an iron paw! I value humor over almost all else and have a fairly wicked sense myself. I've tried standup before and intend to do so again. I like to write, paint, sing karaoke (but only if everyone listening is plastered.) I am kind to everyone and really can't tolerate hateful or overly morose people. I'm cheerful and would prefer to be around other cheerful folks! I am an avid reader and digest information well. I'm intelligent, witty, friendly and I seem to put people at ease. I'm trying to break out of my social scene "rut" to meet new people and it's been pretty fun so far. I want to finish a book I started and stalled on. I want to get more editing experience. I want to take up boxing and I want to know where I put my damned keys! I am extremely lucky to have a great number of friends. If we meet, they are likely to give me the third degree about you so, just be prepared to answer a few questions! One of my friends was freaked that I'd try the online dating thing. We were sitting at a bar and she was getting pretty blustery saying " but they could be a serial killer!" I pointed to a dude a few seats down and said "so could he. What difference does it make where I met them?" I'm fairly certain the guy wasn't a serial killer. At least not at this point in his life. I would very much appreciate if you weren't either! ;) Not to sound like a barfly but my first encounter with you will likely be in that setting. It's a comfort issue. There are people around but they will generally leave you alone and it's less intimate, which for a first meeting takes the pressure off! Now if we like each other and want to go on a real date, I enjoy long dinners with good wine, easy conversation and laughing. As for destinations, I'm pretty much game for anything. I like the zoo, for example! That being said, I don't handle excessive heat too well, so the next few months of summer agony should probably be spent in a pool or central air condition.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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  • Julie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I have a lot of hobbies and interests so see that section. I would like to start things off as friends and just see where things go. I enjoy mostly country music, but I can compromise. I am outgoing and can be spontaneous, but I also enjoy making plans as well. I have kids so you must love kids, 3 from my first marriage and 1 from my second marriage. My kids are 16, 14, 9, and 4. If you want to know anything else please ask.Turn-Offs that will get you blockedIf you are not Caucasian (white)If you are a convicted felonIf you are ONLY looking for a FWB or one-night standIf you lie to me (and I will find out, I always do)If you are already in a relationship I will leave it up to you.

  • Lina

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I’m not really good at talking about myself so I’m not really sure where to start but here it goes… I love to be active as much as possible so when I have the time camping, hiking, reading, golfing and playing sports (i.e. softball and volleyball.) are usually on my list of things I’ll be doing. Don’t get me wrong I do love the “lazy Sunday” sitting at home curled up on the couch watching a good movie as well. I also like to cook, well when I find the time to actually cook a good meal. I love to travel and have fun every moment I can.I am an independent person who is quiet/shy in groups of strangers, but once you get to know me or if I’m around people I know I’m a lot of fun. I’m also known to be a bit sarcastic so if you can’t handle that then you mine as well move on.What am I looking for? Someone who is down to earth; who I can be myself around and vice versa--without either one of us putting on some facade; who has a sharp mind and a quick wit, has depth and warmth, and is loyal and attractive. There is also the connection that can only be determined in person.Feel free to get in touch if you think we could be a match. Best wishes with your search.

  • Lydia

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Ok if ur reading this then I'm guessing u saw something u liked, well I'm not gonna write u a story but here's alil about me.. I dnt date within my race, Iv been single for 3 n half yrs and I'm looking for someone to get to no and see what happens, ;) I have two boys so if ur not a family man or looking for a family then please STOP!!! Rite here bc I'm not the one ur looking for... Whatever we decide.... We grown!!!!

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