Total users: 56,730,061 Online users: 203,979
Brenda, 40

Online

About Me

About me...Single again after many years of marriage. I have 2 kids that live at home with me. 15 and 11 and an older one in college.I am in school again and loving it. I am a very determined hardworking optimist. I love life and believe laughter is the best medicine. I own my own home (just built it in May) and cars. I am organized and responsible. I am working on my degree so for now school is my only job. I run 3- I would not label myself a smoker.I like to go out, try new things and have fun, but I am not a partier and do not do drugs. Most weekend nights I can be found watching movies or attending football games with my kids. I am very serious about school so I spend a lot of time focused on it.I am honest,(my pics are current and not of my sister or photo shopped) caring and considerate. I take my responsibility to my kids very seriously. I cook and keep my home very clean. I cut my own grass and do all of my own yard work. I am not looking for someone to take care of me. I have perfect credit and know how to manage my finances. Basically I have my sh*ttogether. Having said that I am an extremely friendly and social person who can have fun anywhere. I'm always up for an adventure and am lots of fun.I am looking for someone who has it together and is also lots of fun.I welcome someone with children as I am very family oriented and love being around kids.Please do not contact me if you... Still live with your parents or rent from them. (same thing)Are bankrupt, unemployed, or brokeHave lots of ex wife/ baby mama dramaDo drugs or drink heavilyHave a criminal recordHave no ambitionAre uptight and super religiousExpect me to by your dinner or loan you money Don't know how to treat a ladyAre just looking for a sexual encounterLooking forward to meeting you :) coffee...lunch....dinner...drinks...a walk in the park...football game???

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Kelley

    Online

    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    #1- Love is found not by standing around waiting on the side, but by taking the leap. #2-The 3 main rules in any relationship don't lie, don't cheat and don't make promises you can't keep.To all the hurt, heartbroken, cheated on and lied to men that make it hard for a good woman to ever have a chance, I've got you figured out! "You let all the girls go cause itmakes you feel good, doesn't it?;Please, don't hurt me" You've carried on so long you couldn't stop if you tried.You've built your wall so high that no one could climb it..... BUT I'M GONNA TRY..."Attraction is definitely important and has to be there, both ways.I'm looking for someone who is intrigued and wants to discover who I am (i.e. look up Let Me See Beneath Your Beautiful by Labrinth, if you understand that song then you understand what I am truly looking for) and someone who loves to laugh and that I find funny. I do not want a depressed man. I'm just going to say it. I am not on here for sex. If that's what you are looking for then go over to fling.com and quit making things so hard for all the good men on here. Ok, I feel better now. I have enough country in me that I can have fun with the boys playing in the mud on a four- Best of both worlds (; I love to travel but trips are not taken often enough! I believe chivalry is alive with the right guy. I like a man to be a man but have a gentle touch. I'm not looking to use or to be used so don't msg me unless you're really looking for a friend and not just a hook up.Purely for the sake of not wasting your time and not wasting mine. Tattoos are sexy, but if you have one that looks like you had Satan tattooed on your arm, then I'm out! Guys, I know your visual so let me go on and tell you...this is a 'real' woman. But if you're looking for a stick figure then I'm not it. I have curves everywhere a woman is supposed to. My pictures are very current and what you see is what you get. I take care of myself but I'm not at the gym everyday. I think it'd be great to find someone who wanted to workout together and keep each other motivated. I don't want to be with a man that is more concerned about his looks than I am. I'm the kind of lady that can be your best friend, put you in your place when you need it, and appreciate it when you do the same for me. And guys, you scare the !#*¡ out of us girls when you ask "are you affectionate?" That sends my creep meter through the roof! If we like each other, were to meet and hit it off don't you think you might find out then? Easy tiger, lolSo...please if you're a good hearted, fun, respectful, good looking, honest, man that is looking for a sweet, genuine, good woman then find me! I like it when the man does the planning for the first date and all I have to do is look pretty, lol It shows me that you care enough to put thought into it and effort goes a long way in the brownie point department (; Please don't let me intimidate you. I come off as a very strong woman and I am, but I'm also one of the sweetest ladies you'll ever meet.

  • Jodi

    Online

    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm a very athletic..loving..fun and am a very blunt straight forward woman. I'm a Npc figure competitor.. I love to train and take very good care of myself.I have no time for the little hiccups in life that some people will let disrupt they're whole world!

  • Hilary

    Online

    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Trying to fill this out on an iPhone is tedious. I enjoy all sports and like to stay active. I enjoy being outdoors year round. I am a country girl who got big city life experience. I can go from jeans to ball gown with grace and ease. However, if I'm going to be completely honest, which I am, I like playing in the rain and getting muddy more than dinner and dancing. Yes, I like to stay in and cuddle and watch a good movie. But I am no couch potato.There seems to be a lot of complaining about the opposite sexes on here. I answer all messages as I was raised with manners. *** just because you don't like their face or body is crude. I know, when you say hello some people confuse politeness with flirting. Be nice anyway! And no I'm not interested means just that. I've been on here before and I think I've got the hang of things now. Hope to find the guy who makes me want to delete this and never look back. Are you up for the challenge? Lol Have fun gentleman! If you honestly need someone just to talk to I'm a very good listener :)I just deleted this not long ago and the guy was not as he portrayed himself. Happens on this end too. The video isn't to shabby either. Pretty romantic to a girl such as myself ;) and just because I asked you to look at a country song doesn't mean that's all I listen to. Skrillex has an awesome video, first of the year...the little girl is one of my heroes ;) Update: if you are looking for a sexual encounter and you message me for that....be prepared to encounter me being crude right back. You want a classy lady...treat a lady with respect and use the head on your shoulders to do your talking. I'm growing tired of crudeness!! I know the ladies are probably worse. But I'm me, not them. And yes this has been a personal challenge to some....lol...don't mistake my sweet nature for weakness. It's actually a first meeting so it should be something you both agree on. We both want to be able to relax and talk. I don't have anything against meeting for bowling or skydiving....just not on the first meet. If things go well we can decide something to carry over into a date or plan a date. Whatever we decide let's make it fun!!!

Follow Us: