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Pearlie, 40
United States, Massachusetts, Methuen

Offline, last seen Sun, 10 May 2026 13:54:06

About Me

Well what can i say about myself? I think sweet , outgoing, fun, confident and easy going.I am a curvy girl with shape. I have two children 11 and 12 and looking at my new adventure with them and rediscovering myself. I want someone that brings the best out in me. I am looking at dating and taking my time getting to know someone! I really want a quality, not quantity. I do not want to be a serial dater at all. Friendship is first! What is a relationship without a great friendship! I look forward to discovering what it is that I find exquisite about a man, what I like about him and what makes me smile deep down inside! I am not high maintenance by any means, just like a trusting and respectful relationship. I don't want a needy man that is demanding and is jealous of me having a social life. I want him to embrace it and have the same. When we meet our time is fun doing things outdoors, watching movies together and just snuggling. I enjoy wine and cooking. I love to travel and what is out there. Music is a very important part I my life! I love live music and listening to live music sitting on a patio; love it!!! I am new to this! Know that I don't want to hook up or have booty calls! I have been told that most online sites are for primarily sex. Please prove them wrong. Not saying I don't love or like it, just looking for a little more out of someone. I often describe what I am looking for is substance in a man. Someone that has that "je ne sais quoi" and I get so excited thinking about them and butterflies about seeing them. Please know what you are looking for. The "wishy washy" man is not for me. I enjoy confidence and optimism. I am a positive spirit and find negativity sucks the life out of me. Please be a positive person and know the glass is always half full!If you think we could be a good match, send me a message. I am tired of the coffee date and the glass of wine interview... let's go find a fun pub and get a beer on tap or go to a sit at the beach with a coffee to go. Something that is relaxing and just a great way to learn about other and get away from the interview.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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