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About Me

I embrace the little Quirks that make us who we are. Looking to spend time With a gentle, honest and genuine man. A man that places Priority with the people he loves and cherishes. After all -Everyone wants that unconditional acceptance - be itLove or friendship. I tend to be somewhat old fashion in values etc . Thought I should add - I am that woman - the one that likes the random xox's and thoughtful words now and again for no reason. Specially when we are apart. I amThat woman that likes to know I'm thought of and willingly express the same to my interest. Some class that as needy perhaps - I look at it like this - if that is all I require to be content and happy with that special man - it shouldn't be an issue. Has to be a two way street. Asking about how my day way goes a long way. Thoughtfulness - consideration - please. I prefer a neutral place To allow equal comfort. Nothing too loud. Simple always best and takes away the wow factor Pressure. A walk - a drink - mini golf -Something along those lines. Ladies like to be treatedAs such - and of course a gentleman is always treatedAs a gentleman. Small gestures and smallSteps go a long way and are not forgotten. Old fashioned Maybe - but hey - it works!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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