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Lilly, 40

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About Me

I have been single for a few years and have been on a self discovery mission. I am ready to get out there and start dating again. What I am looking for is someone who likes to get out and enjoy life. I love being outdoors and soaking up as much sun as I can. Camping, fishing, hiking or just laying on the beach are my favorite things to do outside. I am a music junkie also, love the Dead but have a very open mind to all genre. My outlet is cooking and find it a great way to unwind after a long day. I come from a large but close knit family and have many friends that have become family as well. Going for coffee or tea, some where quite so we can get to know eachother.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Erma

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a very outgoing, open, honest, hardworking family girl. I have a 2 year old boy that is with me full time, so you must be open to that.I love to tailgate during football seasonI like to golf (especially with my dad...he let's me use my foot wedge and mulligans over and over...lol)I am very close with my family and looking for a man who is close to his as wellI'm looking for my equal, not someone I have to give therapy to, babysit, be a maid to, and be an ATM machine for...been there, done that. (Yes, thats something Im working on, my choices in men).I prefer a tall man since I am 5'8 and still like to wear heels on occasion. * I have had to add this and its not to be mean... Tall man to me isn't 5'6". I'm 5'10 at max with heels. I don't want to bend down to hug you. It's just not my preference. I'm looking for someone with a good sense of humor, seeing how I can be a bit of a clown. What you see is what you get. I know what I want and just when I think I have found a great guy, the gremlins come out of the closet. I need to get better at trusting my gut and seeing the red flags waving in front of my face. I may have to have a panel of judges for the next victim, until I learn how to pick em..lolI want a man who has his act together, his head screwed on straight and all the monkeys off his back (although they are cute) I dont have time for anything else.I treat a man how I would want to be treated and I expect the same in return. I will settle for nothing less.There is nothing sexier than a well dressed and educated man. ( I understand not all men have the dressing thing down pat. Its not a deal breaker, but will need do some on the job teaching). I still have to help my dad out most of the time. Speaking of my dad, I am looking for all the same qualities he displays everyday. (He does whatever my mom says, asks how high to jump and hands over the wallet on command...lol) Only joking! My parents are still together after 40 plus years. These days, that is hard to find.I can go on and on, but thats a start. Im a pretty open book. If you have any questions...just ask :)PS. If you don't have a photo posted, I will not respond...only fair. It's also ok to smile in your photo... Some people look like they posted their line up photo at the local cop shop.I have received many *** people who cannot formulate a sentence. Just so you know, if I have to get a translator to read your ***, I'm not impressed. If your in a towel and half naked ( usually while flexing your biceps) your probably not the right one for me. meetville wont let me say it :) Some things should be left for the imagination and reserved just for the one your with. If your status says your not looking for a commitment or relationship, we aren't on the same page. Honesty is my best policy. If you have gotten this far, thank you for taking the time to read about what I am looking for.

  • Tanya

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a single mother of two wonderful boys. I love hanging out, movies, dinner, boating, motorcycles - anything fun n adventurous. Looking to find my opposite who has the samedrive and ambition - not into games or players - getting too old for that! Surprises! Fun n adventurous!

  • Althea

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Ages ***only!Ok guys! I love getting messages and all the attention, but there is to many to make a choice. Please write me and tell me how our life would be together if we settled down in the next 3 years. This is my purpose on here. I'm here to find my life partner. Not to hook up. Thanks! I like tall thin to average men. ***poundsSeriously!!!! I feel no chemistry with larger men. I'm not trying to offend anyone. (Please don't ask me for a date if you prefer thin to average women! I'm a voluptuous female and am staying that way.)Kids come first! Always and forever!!!If you are here to "hang out" or for "nothing serious" please don't waste your time or mine because as my profile says, I am looking for a long term relationship with lots of dating and hanging out. Just because I am on meetville doesn't mean I am desperate. I am far from that. I don't frequent bars and clubs nor post ads on Craigslist so where else, but the Internet is there to meet people? I stay home on a Friday night rather than go out with the wrong guy. I'm in no rush because I want to get it right this time around and grow old with my lover in life. Plus I do not wish to waste my time or body on the wrong guy!ONLY CONTACT ME IF YOU UNDERSTAND AND AGREE WITH THE FOLLOWING!!! 1. You are NOT looking for ONLY sex!!!! 2. You have a DECENT paying job so you can afford to DATE and have a family one day. I am far from materialistic. I don't care what car you have, where you live, or what expensive toys you own. Just pay all your bills and have a little fun money to spare. I prefer to spend my money on my kids and family. I am a giver. I'm a natural Nurturer. I like to take care of people. I just don't want to date anyone without a job and ambition. 3. I have kids at home ages 10 and 4 and a life so don't get mad if I can't drop everything to meet you. I will never meet you because you already are showing your mental issues! I will meet within two weeks. I will only meet you if I like you physically. Please do the same! Because what's the point otherwise! Don't SETTLE!!!!4. I am not looking to marry anyone, male or female (yes it had to be said) in the next year or even three!!!!!My goal here is to meet that special someone who I click with physically and mentally. I have personal goals to accomplish before moving in with anyone. I want to give my best to my future.5. Physically you must like Boobs and Ass to be with me. I like mine ( and so do many men and women) . My physical traits will always be with me. Maybe a bit smaller because of my own personal goals, but not because of anyone else. Also I enjoy a well endowed man ***inches).Why do men who like thick go for thin?? (Society, I am sure), and men who like thin women pick thick women? (I am sure they are settling. It only makes SEX SUCK EITHER WAY. I am use to great sex. My next relationship will not be any different than my last one of 13 years. Sex was NEVER the issue. I am seeking to date a like minded, social person. I do not like clubbing every weekend. Maybe once a month MAX. Museum anyone? Movies at home are way better than the theater. Germs are all over those seats!!! Eventually I hope to meet my partner in life where we can grow old together on our ranch where we grow and raise or own food. And love our grandkids. God is #1 in my life yet I am not a bible thumper. I do wish I would attend church more. Guess what, Jesus loves me anyway!! My match must enjoy people and want to attend social functions. I am a people person and love people so a jealous guy won't work. (Bingo, my last LTR's problem.) Been there, done that and it makes having friends very difficult. Why can't a guy appreciate that his Lady is attractive enough to get looks? I am faithful to who I am with. I believe that you must have trust and communication in any relationship for it to work with happiness. A positive outlook and a love for God is important. And LOVE kids. Crazy ones because they all are!!! LOLNo disrespect intended- Mexican men- our interests do not match. I am social! And most are cheaters in my own experience.Please don't get offended. Negativity doesn't help anything. (FYI ***My daughter is half Mexican. I was with her father for 5 years.) Yes I am overweight/ curvy/ fat/ extra few pounds/ BBW- call it what you like. BUT I prefer fit men. Don't lie!!! Sex is a major part of my life (when I am with someone in a long term relationship) so attraction is a must on both parties. And in a relationship sex 3x++ a week is healthy. (FYI Sex with me won't happen quickly, but I am worth the wait.)Ages ***Only!!! I like older men! If you are a honest, giving, loving, groomed, CLEAN man who loves having people around, then message me. (NO alcoholics, drug addicts (more than ***on occasion), and physical abusers). And if you don't wash your hands after you pee, before you eat, etc, either start or don't contact me. GROSS! lolThanks for checking out my profile. I promise I am NOT a B. I just have expectations just as you should. The first meeting with be hands off! Unless you sense I want you to kiss me. You will know I promise! ***

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