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Leola, 37
United States, Massachusetts, Hyannis

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About Me

Hello! Well, where to begin...I am 36 years old and 3 years divorced from a 10 year marriage. I have three wonderful children, the oldest of whom is 15. Their father and his new wife are very much a part of my kids' life, so first I should say that I'm not looking for a father for my children, and I think that's very important for any man to know up front. My children are my life, and are my main priority, and now that I'm sure they're very much adjusted from the divorce, I am ready to meet that special someone to share my life with. I am VERY much into music; mostly rock to hardcore metal, and I started a concert booking and promotion company 2 years ago that is slowly but surely growing, but until then I still maintain my "day" job as a server...there's nothing more gratifying than seeing how the crowd reacts to a show you organized and promoted, not to mention helping an awesome "local" band spread their music and get recognized. It's an amazing feeling.I am an animal lover. I have 3 rescue dogs, and if I had the room and the resources necessary I would probably have more, so, having said that, if YOU PARTAKE IN HUNTING OF ANY KIND, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME. I am looking for someone with a good heart, a great mind, and whose self-esteem is high enough to understand that the circumstances in my life won't allow me to spend every waking hour of the day with them, and that's alright...that a relationship isn't about how often you're together, but about how awesome the time is when you are. Also, very important...I am not what you would call picky as far as most character traits except for...wait for it...GRAMMAR! Gentlemen, please, if you don't know the difference between your and you're, or their, there, and they're, it most likely won't work out. I'm not looking for Einstein, but you at least have to have knowledge of 4th grade Grammar.Also, I must state--simply so we won't waste each others time--that I am not by any means a thin person; I'm not ***pounds, either, but I'm packing some extra weight for sure. I am working on this, but until then, take me as I am or stay away. Just putting that out there.*UPDATE* I have searched numerous profiles, and I just have to say this...if your profile picture is a selfie of you shirtless in a bathroom mirror, stay away. You look like (and probably are) a tool.*UPDATE #2* If you are going to inbox me (or anyone on this site, actually) please don't begin with small talk...there is NOTHING more frustrating than opening mail from someone to have it read "Hi" and nothing more; take the time to tell me a little about yourself. I promise you, 9 times out of 10 I will not respond to one-word *** anyone on here.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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