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Jody, 37

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About Me

The tough part...talking about myself. I'm a little shy at first, but warm up quickly. I'm sarcastic at times, I can dish it out and take it back. I would rather do yard work than housework. I'm looking for a man to enjoy some of the same interests I have and enjoy life together. My family and friends are a huge part of my life. I like to have people over for bonfires or pool parties. I like to have a girls night out once in awhile, if your the kind of guy that has to show up at the place my friends and I are going out for the night, please keep looking your not for me. I don't have a problem getting married again or having more children w/ the right guy. I have 2 boys and they mean the world to me. I'm looking for a honest man to enjoy life with and to be a good role model for my kids. Just because it says long term doesn't mean I want to marry you the 1st time I meet you. Looking for a great friendship that may lead to more. I want someone to make me laugh(I love to smile) and hold me when I cry. I'm a go with the flow kind of girl. I am not fake, materialistic, or high maintenance. I'm a honest, independant person and looking for the same in a man. NOT looking for an insecure, clingy guy. As you can see in my pics some of them I'm not even wearing makeup, most days I just like to throw my hair up and put on my shorts and a tank top or jeans and sweatshirt depending on the time of the year . I have a couple tatoos. I did realize that some of my pics my hair is straight, but it is naturally curly and I do straighten it sometimes, but not a whole lot. I like to watch movies, whether its going out or staying at home. I love to listen to music, usually loud in the car so I can sing along. I like a wide range of music but usually no country music. I don't need a man to support me, I have a good job and have been w/ the same company for 15yrs. I have 4 weeks vacation, where should we go? I own my own house, but I might need a handy man once in awhile. LOL Please don't contact me if you don't have a job, a drivers license, a vehicle or you smoke. Thank you. My favorite time of the year is the Fall, especially for walking and bike riding. I've recently started eating healthier & have shed a few extra pounds. Would like someone that does the same & to be active with. I may not be perfect but at least I am not fake. I'm an open book, just ask. Dinner or drinks to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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