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Benita, 39

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About Me

I like to do a lot of different things. What's more important is who you are with. I am very fortunate to have a large group of very close friends that I spend time with on a regular basis. When it comes to having fun I like to do anything outdoors... I am looking to find someone who wants a solid friendship that may evolve into a long term relationship. I would like a guy who knows how to treat a lady. He needs to be loving, affectionate, caring, honest, attractive, clean cut, and able to express himself. Most of all he needs to be fun and outgoing! Please have some pictures other than self pics! I know all you men don't hang out ***in your bathroom!! lolWell there is no one exactly like me so I guess that alone makes me unique! I think it is always nice to do something where you have a chance to talk a little and have a little fun...minature golf maybe??

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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