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Melinda, 36

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About Me

Hoping to have a positive experience this time. Be not the slave of your own past. Plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep and swim far, so you shall come back with self-respect, with new power, with an advanced experience that shall explain and overlook the old.; poet ***Just starting over in the dating world and it has been quite a while. I work very hard but try to play harder. My true love is singing and all kinds of music except techno/rap/hip hop. I am funny, a little clumsy and have a huge heart. No dull moments here!Guess I should develop this more. I'm a hospice nurse and I care for people that are dying. We try to help them find levity and strength and comfort to use the time they have left enjoying their loved ones and then exit this world with dignity and pain free. It's stressful and time consuming. I have bad days no joke and I need someone who can balance that and help me have fun, love and levity in my life. I love gentlemen who stand for something and choose to enhance others lives. I need someone with a kind heart, open ears and big shoulders. Someone who has their sh*ttogether is a must have. Btw. The abs pics. Give your intentions away and are not the least bit attractive. You are screaming "shallow ****em and leave em".A few preferences.....I prefer white men and you must be at least 70 inches tall to ride this ride, have a drivers license, a working car and a job. Not to much to ask I would think ? And!!!! Not as old as my Dad. Eeewww ! Quiet meal or drink and get to know each other. Keep it casual and non pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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  • Maura

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Help!okay now lets back up here. Don't ask if your under35 or over 49.sorry just to much, I'm not into younger men.no offence :).just bein honest. I'm sorry if i offend you, but I'm not here to be changed or saved. I am ***friendly. If your not that's cool, but i do....My family is my most important thing to me.kids come first. On both ends ;).I don't drink everyday. Occasion, I can have good time. Sober ....or not;)I do smoke mary j but no hard drugs!.but definitely no bootie calls! No kids no perves, need not apply.!i have talked to some cool peeps on here,just to far away or both not mutual interest.ive got where my trust has been broken on this site.makes it harder for next person.its going to come out.if u got alcoholic or need anger management please no drama...ive had several guys true color come out over the phone and in person.not pretty!if u got major issues,i dont have time.if your friends and family run your life ,you ,must be able to make your own decision .and have time for someone else in your life....Im almost loosing hope that there are actually any men out there,thats wants to start out at friends.see if There's chemistry and go from there!No strings attached,friends first!;)I am a little complicated,but who isn't right.I have had to fell back surgeries,injured at work many years ago.that I was employed 12 yrs at.i was fired from job and had to work hard to keep my family together. I am a strong independent woman.I don't need a man to take care of me. I wish this was easier. To dump all this out but now u kno.and I have narcolepsy btw. Sleep disorder.I do control with meds......Im available during the day the best time for me.when kids in school.my weekend's every other sat.so this does make difficult to meet.So please dont waste our time!Thanks:) Omg this is very difficult,overwhelming with idiots ive talked to a few good guys from here..Well I don't want to waste either of are time! We must have connection,not into texting for weeks or a hook up.my pictures are recent.I have two boys that are my world! 9 and 14.great kids!Must have yourself together.car,home,respectful to others..care about more than just yourself,but take care of yourself.I'm a girlie girl.I like to dress up!And independent, truthful,i say what's on my mind....Looking for a honest down to earth man, looking for laid back girl!;)jeans and tees with heels of coarse :)or i can dress 4 a nice dinner or lounge Im my tights...i comfortable in all.im getting lonley and bored.Im ready for one guyThat's ready to have some fun!no serial daters ...id like to get this right...Are first date will hopefully be the one,of many to come!Have a great day:)And may all your dreams come true!..... shoots a bulls eye.....

  • Cathryn

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a loving mother of three, so if you do not like children I am the wrong women for you. I like to go to the movies, go out dancing, hang out with my friends and just staying home. I am looking for my best friends, someone I can share everything with. If you are looking for sex only please don't contact me. If you want to text me all kinds of nasty stuff please don't bother. I am just being honest because I don't want to waste my time or yours. If you think you would like to get to know me, send me a message. I am a great down to earth girl. I would go do something fun like playing pool,or going to the beach so we would have a chance to talk and be comfortable at same time.

  • Emilia

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm 40 yrs old and have been divorced for 6 yrs now. I've done the dating scene and believe it's time for another real relationship. I have 3 grown children and don't mind dating someone who has kids. I'm very laid back and I don't like head games or drama. I'm not high maintenance and i love my jeans and t-shirts. That's how I'm most comfortable. I'd like to find someone between the ages of ***and who is also laid back and easy going...and let's be honest if the attraction isn't there then the relationship will never begin. I do not want to offend anyone but I am only interested in caucasian men and please read my profile and interests if you don't have some of these things in common...then don't bother it will save us both alot of time. Really I'm looking for my best friend and someone to travel with. If there's anything else you want to know just ask.

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