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Melinda, 36

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Hoping to have a positive experience this time. Be not the slave of your own past. Plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep and swim far, so you shall come back with self-respect, with new power, with an advanced experience that shall explain and overlook the old.; poet ***Just starting over in the dating world and it has been quite a while. I work very hard but try to play harder. My true love is singing and all kinds of music except techno/rap/hip hop. I am funny, a little clumsy and have a huge heart. No dull moments here!Guess I should develop this more. I'm a hospice nurse and I care for people that are dying. We try to help them find levity and strength and comfort to use the time they have left enjoying their loved ones and then exit this world with dignity and pain free. It's stressful and time consuming. I have bad days no joke and I need someone who can balance that and help me have fun, love and levity in my life. I love gentlemen who stand for something and choose to enhance others lives. I need someone with a kind heart, open ears and big shoulders. Someone who has their sh*ttogether is a must have. Btw. The abs pics. Give your intentions away and are not the least bit attractive. You are screaming "shallow ****em and leave em".A few preferences.....I prefer white men and you must be at least 70 inches tall to ride this ride, have a drivers license, a working car and a job. Not to much to ask I would think ? And!!!! Not as old as my Dad. Eeewww ! Quiet meal or drink and get to know each other. Keep it casual and non pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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