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Jaime, 34
United States, Massachusetts, Fitchburg

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About Me

I am one of the last of my friends to be single and although I have no problem going out on my own, some people seem to find that daunting and it doesn’t guarantee finding people to hang out with or even to have a decent conversation with. I am also a teacher, so I don’t tend to meet many people professionally and am often bogged down with grading, planning and coaching.I am passionate and whimsical, rational and romantic, intelligent and introspective, silly and sardonic. I love being outdoors (when it isn’t freezing out), rocking out to my favorite music, and writing. I am a bibliophile and have a love affair with words, so if your vocabulary is limited to “yo, your hot” and/or you think proof reading is for nerds, please stop reading now and move along to the next kissy-face picture you come to.I have met a few people online before and have realized that it is ridiculous to hang hope on someone you have a few exchanges with in terms of dating, but people do and there’s an underlying pressure to “like or not to like”, yet everyone I’ve ever dated has been a friend first. Therefore, while I am hoping to encounter someone special, it is more important to meet someone cool to spend time with and take it from there. Ultimately, I want to know and be known. To recognize something in another person that inspires me to be better, while accepting me as I am. I am not sure what it is I’m seeking, but I recognize when it’s missing. Give me a man who speaks fluent sarcasm, who can weave dreams into realities, who can follow my obscure literary and film references, who will call me on my bullsh*t and who will let me know him as I let him know me and I will be fulfilled.Can you tell over coffee or a beer whether there’s enough character in the character beside you to make you want to delve a bit deeper? If so, drop me a line.Ps ... I'm on a bit of a health kick, working on changing foods and such which is leading me to want to be more healthy all around - so if you are only silent due to the smoking thing, don't miss out... I may be done soon! I appreciate a phone call first and let's see if we click... but it isn't a good idea to wait so long the spark sputters out, so rather than draw out texting/chatting, wouldn't it be fun to do something early on so it is less like an interview and more like a new experience?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Techno Playing Cards Japanese Korean Spanish Vietnamese Drama Family & Kids History Mystery
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