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About Me

I'm a registered nurse in an emergency room. I am also pursuing a career as a nurse practitioner. I own a home where I live with my cat Dawkins....yes, after B. Dawk. I'm fairly active...I will make many efforts to go to the gym at least 3 days a week, but sometimes after working 12 hour shifts, that is the last thing I feel like doing. I take very good care of myself. No cavities, no medical issues, and I like to stay up to date with all the latest fashions......but I will not wear fake hair...GROSS. My nails are usually done, I love wearing makeup and smelling good. I wear dresses, and high heels or a fashionable pair of boots. Don't get it wrong though...I'm not materialistic. I'll sport sweats and my UGGS when I'm chilling around the house, or when there is a Wawa or Home Depot run. But for the most part I like to look presentable.I am very honest...some say brutally honest, but I don't necessarily think that is a bad trait to possess. Heck, I'd rather have a honest, up front person in my life than a bold faced liar!!!My intent for this dating experience is to find someone that fits my criteria and vice versa. I realize that nobody is perfect, and face it, I'm in my 30's and I don't look like I did when I was 23. If a real MAN is looking for a 30 something female to look like she did when she was 23 then you should be looking for a female that age. But if you are serious about being in a relationship with someone established, then you've come to the right profile. I'm not putting my looks aside, I am a damn good catch, but I'm also realistic.I'm a fun chick, mostly everybody and anybody wants to hang with me...I have a great sense of humor, but I'm also serious when need to be. I hate games... and dudes who play "hard to get".. forget about talking to me. I despise that more than anything. If I like you and you like me...why not talk more than once a day? What are we in junior high? I mean grow up. If we meet and you don't feel the vibe, than erase my number....don't sympathy text me...there's a ton of men out there, and you will be forgotten.I also don't tolerate jealousy or controlling men. I'm old enough to know what I want, and having someone I'm interested in telling me what to do really sux.Ok, that's enough....if there is more you want to know about me, then I guess you'll just have to ask!!Cheers! I think a drink or two or three is appropriate for a meet and greet...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Angelica

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    "Take me as I am, or leave me the way you found me"I'm a single mom, and I love my son (as I would like to think any mom does..) If me having a child is too much for you to handle, please move on. He's not going anywhere. ;) I like football season (GO STEELERS).. something about the excitement of it all (even if I don't understand it completely). I love to have fun, and I'll try almost anything once. I love my family, and my friends and they are important to me! Love is important to me! I'm honest, positive, easy going, and I love to laugh and have a good time. Life's too short. I can be shy at first but it usually doesn't last long. Especially if there's a connection. GUILTY!! I judge a persons looks before I read their profile! Geez.. it doesn't make me a bad person. Lets be honest, you have to have some sort of a physical attraction to a person before you date them. My ideal match, most importantly, someone who is honest! I despise liars.. I don't have time for that nonsense. I have a 4 year old son (well almost), so someone who loves kids.. I don't know what it is. I prefer someone 6 foot or over as I am 5'8'' myself, and don't like towering over my other half when I wear heels. I wanna feel like a woman, I wanna feel small (the taller, the better). Someone who takes care of themselves. I go to the gym at least 3 days a week.. I want someone that does the same..keep me motivated. There's nothing better then someone who challenges and pushes you (within reason, of course), especially on days you can't. I love to laugh. Someone who has a good sense of humor is important to me. "Laughter is the best medicine". I like to think my sense of humor is pretty decent, so it'd be nice to have it in return. I HATE smokers! I am a sucker for blonde hair and big ol' blue eyes. Just because I say I have a soft spot for it, it doesn't it make it necessary!I'm not here for games. I'm here to ultimately help myself find "my guy". I want to find my best friend, my other half.. someone that makes me feel complete. That person I can tell anything to, and can be completely myself around! I want to find "the one".... :)Please don't be offended if I don't respond. If I don't respond, it's simply because I am not interested. It doesn't mean that I'm a bit*h, or something is wrong with you... You are just not my type. That is all. Sorry if that blunt honesty offends you, but if you can't handle it, we aren't meant to be. :).. People make me laugh! Profile says "NON-smoker", yet they have multiple pictures holding a cigarette (immediate turn off).Profile says "average body type" yet they have a beer belly. .. that's not average, it's "a few extra pounds" lol .. gotta love people. *Shake My Head* Ideal date? .. Really doesn't matter.. Anything from wings and beer, to an amusement park.. to a walk on the beach, or maybe even paintball!? I am not a picky person, and can find joy in almost anything I do... even if it's just hanging out, doing nothing.

  • Jeri

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I enjoy spending time with my friends and family. I love spending time outside, walking, bike riding, hiking, beach, etc. I have everything I want in life, just looking for someone to share it with.

  • Jaime

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am one of the last of my friends to be single and although I have no problem going out on my own, some people seem to find that daunting and it doesn’t guarantee finding people to hang out with or even to have a decent conversation with. I am also a teacher, so I don’t tend to meet many people professionally and am often bogged down with grading, planning and coaching.I am passionate and whimsical, rational and romantic, intelligent and introspective, silly and sardonic. I love being outdoors (when it isn’t freezing out), rocking out to my favorite music, and writing. I am a bibliophile and have a love affair with words, so if your vocabulary is limited to “yo, your hot” and/or you think proof reading is for nerds, please stop reading now and move along to the next kissy-face picture you come to.I have met a few people online before and have realized that it is ridiculous to hang hope on someone you have a few exchanges with in terms of dating, but people do and there’s an underlying pressure to “like or not to like”, yet everyone I’ve ever dated has been a friend first. Therefore, while I am hoping to encounter someone special, it is more important to meet someone cool to spend time with and take it from there. Ultimately, I want to know and be known. To recognize something in another person that inspires me to be better, while accepting me as I am. I am not sure what it is I’m seeking, but I recognize when it’s missing. Give me a man who speaks fluent sarcasm, who can weave dreams into realities, who can follow my obscure literary and film references, who will call me on my bullsh*t and who will let me know him as I let him know me and I will be fulfilled.Can you tell over coffee or a beer whether there’s enough character in the character beside you to make you want to delve a bit deeper? If so, drop me a line.Ps ... I'm on a bit of a health kick, working on changing foods and such which is leading me to want to be more healthy all around - so if you are only silent due to the smoking thing, don't miss out... I may be done soon! I appreciate a phone call first and let's see if we click... but it isn't a good idea to wait so long the spark sputters out, so rather than draw out texting/chatting, wouldn't it be fun to do something early on so it is less like an interview and more like a new experience?

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