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United States, Massachusetts, Fitchburg

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About Me

I'm a registered nurse in an emergency room. I am also pursuing a career as a nurse practitioner. I own a home where I live with my cat Dawkins....yes, after B. Dawk. I'm fairly active...I will make many efforts to go to the gym at least 3 days a week, but sometimes after working 12 hour shifts, that is the last thing I feel like doing. I take very good care of myself. No cavities, no medical issues, and I like to stay up to date with all the latest fashions......but I will not wear fake hair...GROSS. My nails are usually done, I love wearing makeup and smelling good. I wear dresses, and high heels or a fashionable pair of boots. Don't get it wrong though...I'm not materialistic. I'll sport sweats and my UGGS when I'm chilling around the house, or when there is a Wawa or Home Depot run. But for the most part I like to look presentable.I am very honest...some say brutally honest, but I don't necessarily think that is a bad trait to possess. Heck, I'd rather have a honest, up front person in my life than a bold faced liar!!!My intent for this dating experience is to find someone that fits my criteria and vice versa. I realize that nobody is perfect, and face it, I'm in my 30's and I don't look like I did when I was 23. If a real MAN is looking for a 30 something female to look like she did when she was 23 then you should be looking for a female that age. But if you are serious about being in a relationship with someone established, then you've come to the right profile. I'm not putting my looks aside, I am a damn good catch, but I'm also realistic.I'm a fun chick, mostly everybody and anybody wants to hang with me...I have a great sense of humor, but I'm also serious when need to be. I hate games... and dudes who play "hard to get".. forget about talking to me. I despise that more than anything. If I like you and you like me...why not talk more than once a day? What are we in junior high? I mean grow up. If we meet and you don't feel the vibe, than erase my number....don't sympathy text me...there's a ton of men out there, and you will be forgotten.I also don't tolerate jealousy or controlling men. I'm old enough to know what I want, and having someone I'm interested in telling me what to do really sux.Ok, that's enough....if there is more you want to know about me, then I guess you'll just have to ask!!Cheers! I think a drink or two or three is appropriate for a meet and greet...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Bowling
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