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Mindy, 32
United States, Massachusetts, Fitchburg

Offline, last seen Wed, 14 Jan 2026 14:18:28

About Me

Hmm not great talking about myself really. Im a single mom raising my children on my own. My kids are my world. Ive met a few guys on here and i cant really say all that good. Wish I could. Its amazing how some men can put on such a good front and then you find out it was a game. But enough about that. I have my own place and car. I share my home with my amazing children. Im not looking to RUSH anything.. What happens, happens. My children will always come first. I like to laugh and defently love making others laugh. Im often known to wear my heart on my sleeve and trying to not do that anymore. I need a man who is serious in wanting to put effort in getting to know me for me and accept im a single mom and likes children. I love camping, fishing, walking, going to the gym, being the best mother i can be. Been single for ***yrs now. Im not gonna just settle for any man that walks in my life. Its gonna take honesty, commucation, trust, etc. If your out for a good time look eles where. Im not into one night stands.. I want something real but ive learned it doesnt just happen. It takes two people who really want to try and make it work, for it to work, I would like a guy who has a car as i dont wanna have to do all the driving and can accept the fact i have kids. Otherwise its not gonna work. Im very easy going, down to earth, i dont drink, smoke, nor drugs and would like the same in someone eles. Id like to find someone who has a sense of humor as i do. I recently lost my mom to pancreatic cancer last nov ***which was devestating to me. Im learning to deal with her passing but still hard to know she's gone. But I go on with my life for my kids sake, My kids are number 1 in my life and no man will come before them and id only hope the same from him. Anything eles you'd like to know feel free to message me. Im an open book. I dislike liers, cheaters, etc, I have a Huge passion for horses as Ive been riding sense I was 3 and done barrle racing, jumping, dressage etc. My most favroite is when I can be out riding its so pleasent and takes all my worries away.. He was about 30yrs old. If that wasnt bad enough I lost my mom just last year to pancreatic cancer. So I lost 2 of my best friends in less than a year. My horse blaze was my buddy and miss him everyday and same with my mom. Im probably the most easy going and down to earth kinda girl you will ever meet. Im the type to give you the shirt off my back. And I love my country music lol. I like some hip hop as well. Im not your typical girly girl. I dont mind getting down and dirty with the guys and getting dirt under my nails. Yet I can clean up quite nicley. I like to find a man who has the same intrests in horses as I do. Everyone I try and talk to about horses their like "what"? what does that mean? And then i have to explain all the horse terms to them vs someone who knows exactly what im saying. Im looking for a friend and if we click and it goes further great, But the point is at least I made a good friend out of this site.. Well if I spark your intrest feel free to message me.. Depends on what both feel comfortable with. Coffee, walk by the water etc. Who knows?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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