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Bessie, 30

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About Me

I recently made a career change (from HR to a... drum roll please, a hairdresser) & moved to MA. It was one of the best decisions I've ever made to change careers since my quality of life has greatly improved. I love talking to people & learning about their lives. I do work 3 jobs so I enjoy working hard but also relaxing and having fun. Since my free time is limited I don't want to waste it. One day I hope to own my own salon.I am a very honest person & have no desire for drama in my life. I will say I hate watching sports on tv (see honesty) but love going to them in person. Figured I'd put that out there since it can be a deal breaker with diehard sports fans. I figure it's guy time so go & be with your boys.I absolutely love music & it truly is a part of my soul.I can be what some would say...strong willed but it only comes from a good place. I am compassionate, kind, love to laugh and be light hearted, intelligent, articulate, a perfectionist and can be hard on myself which is something I am working on, hey none of us is perfect right? I know what want out of life & would rather be alone than ever settle. I am authentic & real & will call it like I see it if necessary. I am not interested in a guy who does drugs, a player or only interested in a hookup. I'm too old for that kind of stuff.Attraction & friendship are equally important & necessary for me. I also want a guy who will open the door for me and will throw me over his shoulder....but not at the same time. Also I'm a huge movie buff & kinda dude when it comes to movies. There's much more to me but that's the fun part in getting to know someone. I don't give out my number fast so don't ask if we have only exchanged a few messages. No smokers. If I don't respond I'm most likely not interested. Not interested in long distance. If you are over 40 I'm not interested... If you are too young... Same thing. If you are not open for a potential relationship or kids do us both a favor & do not waste either of our time. Sorry if this comes off bad but I'e received some very odd messages

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dora

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    Okay so this is online dating thing new to me. Not too sure how I feel about it yet. Anyway, I am looking to meet someone who I can make happy and who makes me just as happy. I would like to find someone I can be with long term and who I can call my best friend. I don't like drama or people who play games. Life is just too short to be anything but happy.I enjoy traveling and try to travel internationally at least one a year. I also enjoy spending time with family or friends. I am always up for an adventure out, but I can enjoy staying in as well. As long as you are in good company, I believe it doesn't matter where you are. Going to the gym and eating healthy are a big part of my life. I just finished my first tough mudder. And I am already signed up for two next year and two other mud runs. I love a good challenge! I grew up playing sports and swam competitively for 13 years. I'm not really sure what else to write...If you want to know anything else about me just ask:) I'm up for anything:)

  • Ida

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    Well, where do I begin? Have no fear however, I did leave this area to go to school to become a music teacher. I've lived in western PA (and no I DO NOT worship the "terrible towel"!! I will admit I am a bit of a band nerd. I play in a few community/ professional ensembles in the area and I play the oboe. I consider myself to be a very independent person. I often know what I want and go after it. I definitely think being indecisive is annoying as well as being "flaky". I am extremely loyal, and easy to get along with. I like to say I have a good head on my shoulders and can think things through in a calm, rational way. But I am definitely full of creativity and am truely a child at heart. I love insane unique thinkers, it always makes for fun conversation. I don't mind debating either and will often play "devil's advocate" in conversation just help out a person when thinking through a hypothetical situation. I definitely enjoy watching football and going to Iron Pig games. One of my crowning achievements was singing the National Anthem at an Iron Pigs game. I like to read, as well as be outdoors to go on a hike. I have never fished before. I've always wanted to go on a hot air balloon ride, they just look like fun! If it's a spontaneous travel choice it excites me more. Hmmm, what do I look for in a guy. Not entirely sure, I have this philosophy that I'll just know it when I see it. Must be able to hold intelligent conversation. Religion plays a factor in my life, if you dont believe in it, I respect that however, don't knock my beliefs. I will say this though, if you can return my witty convesation or even laugh along with me, I will like you a lot for it. I want my date and I to feel like we have some sort of kinship at the end of the date. Friends are important. I dont open for a romantic connection unless I truly get to know the person. Call me sentimental, I have zero interest in strictly romantic pursuits... It makes the connection boring if you know the answer to the question. Much more fun to realize you've stumbled upon something wonderful than to expect it. Anyway, thanks for stopping by and checking out my page. Enjoy your day! I think it would be a cool idea to go somewhere fun like to a pottery place to paint it. Or even to some sort of museum, to check out the sights. I also love being able to find a nice quiet place to absorb the surroundings and have good conversation or meditation.

  • Cherie

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I'm a great partner and I have a lot to offer to the right relationship, but in the mean time Im a busy person who's not looking to get into anything unless its going to be worth my time. ***Dont ask for my number if you're not willing to meet up ASAP...I don't enjoy texting or messaging back and forth all day. *** Something spontaneous and fun.

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