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Bessie, 30
United States, Massachusetts, Easthampton

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About Me

I recently made a career change (from HR to a... drum roll please, a hairdresser) & moved to MA. It was one of the best decisions I've ever made to change careers since my quality of life has greatly improved. I love talking to people & learning about their lives. I do work 3 jobs so I enjoy working hard but also relaxing and having fun. Since my free time is limited I don't want to waste it. One day I hope to own my own salon.I am a very honest person & have no desire for drama in my life. I will say I hate watching sports on tv (see honesty) but love going to them in person. Figured I'd put that out there since it can be a deal breaker with diehard sports fans. I figure it's guy time so go & be with your boys.I absolutely love music & it truly is a part of my soul.I can be what some would say...strong willed but it only comes from a good place. I am compassionate, kind, love to laugh and be light hearted, intelligent, articulate, a perfectionist and can be hard on myself which is something I am working on, hey none of us is perfect right? I know what want out of life & would rather be alone than ever settle. I am authentic & real & will call it like I see it if necessary. I am not interested in a guy who does drugs, a player or only interested in a hookup. I'm too old for that kind of stuff.Attraction & friendship are equally important & necessary for me. I also want a guy who will open the door for me and will throw me over his shoulder....but not at the same time. Also I'm a huge movie buff & kinda dude when it comes to movies. There's much more to me but that's the fun part in getting to know someone. I don't give out my number fast so don't ask if we have only exchanged a few messages. No smokers. If I don't respond I'm most likely not interested. Not interested in long distance. If you are over 40 I'm not interested... If you are too young... Same thing. If you are not open for a potential relationship or kids do us both a favor & do not waste either of our time. Sorry if this comes off bad but I'e received some very odd messages

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Mexican Middle Eastern Turkish Comedy Drama History War
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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

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