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Bessie, 30
United States, Massachusetts, Easthampton

Offline, last seen Sun, 19 Oct 2025 22:08:44

About Me

I recently made a career change (from HR to a... drum roll please, a hairdresser) & moved to MA. It was one of the best decisions I've ever made to change careers since my quality of life has greatly improved. I love talking to people & learning about their lives. I do work 3 jobs so I enjoy working hard but also relaxing and having fun. Since my free time is limited I don't want to waste it. One day I hope to own my own salon.I am a very honest person & have no desire for drama in my life. I will say I hate watching sports on tv (see honesty) but love going to them in person. Figured I'd put that out there since it can be a deal breaker with diehard sports fans. I figure it's guy time so go & be with your boys.I absolutely love music & it truly is a part of my soul.I can be what some would say...strong willed but it only comes from a good place. I am compassionate, kind, love to laugh and be light hearted, intelligent, articulate, a perfectionist and can be hard on myself which is something I am working on, hey none of us is perfect right? I know what want out of life & would rather be alone than ever settle. I am authentic & real & will call it like I see it if necessary. I am not interested in a guy who does drugs, a player or only interested in a hookup. I'm too old for that kind of stuff.Attraction & friendship are equally important & necessary for me. I also want a guy who will open the door for me and will throw me over his shoulder....but not at the same time. Also I'm a huge movie buff & kinda dude when it comes to movies. There's much more to me but that's the fun part in getting to know someone. I don't give out my number fast so don't ask if we have only exchanged a few messages. No smokers. If I don't respond I'm most likely not interested. Not interested in long distance. If you are over 40 I'm not interested... If you are too young... Same thing. If you are not open for a potential relationship or kids do us both a favor & do not waste either of our time. Sorry if this comes off bad but I'e received some very odd messages

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Mexican Middle Eastern Turkish Comedy Drama History War
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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    Quick to laugh.Easy breezy cheesy.Emotional.Blessed.Love my family.Natural.Organic.Love seafood.I look at eyes first.I treasure my alone time.Puppy time.Gym time.I love making in fun of people behind their backs. (Yes I actually said that) and no I'm not a mean girl just a fun sense of humor ;)Also I have a crappy work schedule so you 9-5ers won't like it. Beware.Boys under 25, not interested. Happy fishing! Lets go for a walk.

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  • Randi from Easthampton | Woman | 26 years old | Virgo
    Randi

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    Just looking to meet genuine, fun people to enjoy life with. Friends or something more, who can say! Both are great! Just gotta wait and see! I like to have a good time but know that balance is important too...just wanna enjoy life and be happy! Drama filled persons need not apply ;)Update:I haven't updated my profile in a while and am honestly not picky at all but I feel like the wrong type of guys are messaging me lol and I guess I'm gonna be that person and list some turnoffs just to filter and not waste anyones time :)Turnoffs:-arrogance-orange skin-boys that take longer in the bathroom than I do lol-vulgarity-dudes who post semi naked pictures and/or their abs...Also, this isn't a turnoff but more of a requirement I guess haha,..basically I always eventually ask for a *** is PERSONAL, but hey so is meeting someone, so if you don't have one, no whoop...but I usually don't pursue anything further! thanks :) down for whatever :)

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  • Joan from Easthampton | Woman | 26 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    You can't explain yourself by writing about it. Send me a message and get to know me yourself. The things I will say is that you must be ok with me having 2 kids. Also you need to know for sure what you want and what you can handle before you message me. I will not tolerate being lied to about ANYTHING. So if you are a compulsive lier do not contact me

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