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Pauline, 33
United States, Massachusetts, Dracut

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About Me

So about me........I like to think i'm a pretty fun girl. I'm usually down for whatever with good company. I'm the youngest of 11 kids, so I'm really good at sharing and not so good at keeping secrets ( well, not really that I cant keep something i know is a secret, i just cant ever tell what is a secret and what isn't, so if there is something you don't want me to tell anyone, you need to preface it with "this is a secret, please don't tell anyone") Moving on..... My 11 year old son is AWESOME and my greatest accomplishment to date..lol(cuz I'm a hater). I'm pretty adventurous..love roller coasters, and want to try sky diving and bungee jumping. I also like road trips a lot! That first year was tough, and I was considering going back, but the dust has settled, and we're now diggin the PNW.I was an athlete all my life, so i love playing and watching sports, and am pretty passionate about fitness and nutrition. Just went wine tasting for the first time, and had a blast (not just cuz i was drunk either! I like some pop, rap, hip- Ok, I honestly couldn't tell you the difference between some of these genres..lol, but I just know I like a variety. I'm into some for the beat, and some for the words. As for goals and aspirations, my biggest goal is to raise my son to be happy, healthy, and successful in whatever he chooses to do. For myself, I think Id like to get my RN at some point (I'm so close that it just makes sense) and after that pursue a degree and career in my real passion, Holistic Medicine/Nutrition. I'm not in a rush though, i feel like my son's needs come first right now and I'm enjoying his childhood. What I'm looking for:People who want to be friends first. There is so much pressure with dating in general, let alone internet dating. Its more fun if you let go of your expectations, and just be yourself. Statistically, the odds are not on our side, so lets just meet up and get to know each other and determine if we even want to go on a date. Maybe we will just want to keep in touch as friends(I consider this a WIN!)While sharing interests is comforting, its always exciting to learn something new. The biggest characteristic that I struggle with in others is arrogance. I'm not very tolerant of it. It could be because I don't like that aspect of myself, and find it hard to contain around another arrogant person...not totally sure, but it just irks me. drinks or coffee, and sooner than later. Its hard to feel a connection with someone unless you meet em in person.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Pop Dance Caribbean French Italian Korean Biography Drama Music
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

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