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Melinda, 30
United States, Indiana, Portage

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About Me

I would Like to find a lover and a best friend. I want the man who challenges me, physically and intellectually. I am not saying I am a crazy athlete or anything but I would love a man who will push me to get out and run, go WOD together, maybe even train and do something like Tough Mudder together. I want to create a life with someone with interesting stories to tell our children some day. I would love to travel and explore new places. (bonus points if he wants to wear them too!....ask me about day drinking at disneyland ;) can be a good time) I want to go on dates. Not just come over to your place and watch tv...show me you are creative and lets go out! doesn't have to be expensive, money doesn't impress me (not looking for a sugar daddy, I got mine) In fact, I love the dates that are more creative and show planning :) Looking for a real man, tired of the guys who are only after one thing !! Also hoping for someone taller than me, since I love to wear heals, 6'0 and above is preferred....I am sure you are a great guy, just not for me) -I have the most amazing friends and family ever so if you are just in this for friendship, I may not be what you are looking for. -Also, in the reverse, If you are just looking for a hook up, not me either! I feel like romance and dating has been lost on todays generation and I would love to find a man who knows what dating means!My free time is precious, tell me why and how I should spend it with you :)Also, After a year of marriage, my husband came to me and told me he was no longer in love with me. (yes, that actually happened, theres a good reason lol if you want a laugh, ask) We are still close after all the heartbreak we both had to go through. I tried not talking about it to people I date and that backfired so I am starting over with my biggest flaw being upfront :) ***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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