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Benita, 34
United States, Indiana, Marion

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About Me

Where do I begin....I'm a very open-minded person but wouldn't consider myself easy. I get along with pretty much anyone and am a very caring person but am not empathetic to those who play victim in their own life. I'm realistic yet a dreamer at the same time. My movie collection resembles that of an adolescent boy but don't get it twisted...I don't want to sit around and watch anime all day either. I think everyone should have a hobby, yet I don't really have one...perhaps i just haven't made time for one. If you're still reading, you have earned a point. I'm sarcastic, goofy and giggle often. I love music, breakfast and using ellipses. I have a decent job which pays alright in this economy...good thing I got that Bachelor's degree. Actually, I love education and like to surround myself with people very different than me so that I may become more enriched through their different experiences. You may have read that I have a child, in fact I have two. If you are still reading, you now have two points. I'll be cliche and say they are my life because well they are and I don't have much free time outside of them. I will not be cliche by saying that I have no baby daddy drama...there is no relationship in the world that has no drama but if you want to know (which I guess if you're still reading, you do) I have a respectable relationship with the father of my son and haven't talked to my daughter's father in almost 4 years. I am a strong, single mom who doesn't expect anyone to take care of me or my children.I like to talk but not about myself, so if you would like to get to know me better...send me a message please rather than selecting "meet me". If you're not sure if I'm what you're looking for or if you're looking for a "hook up"...keep looking...and good luck! Hey, I'm all for equal rights but I would like a guy to actually plan a date. For me to be surprised...and by surprised I don't mean taking me to a strip club, out to the bar, or to "watch movies" at his place. Creativity is sexy...so I would let the guy choose the entertainment for the first date.Honestly, I'd rather meet first during the day for a smoothie or coffee...something more casual to see how comfortable we would be with each other first.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk Jazz British History War Boxing
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