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Benita, 34

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About Me

Where do I begin....I'm a very open-minded person but wouldn't consider myself easy. I get along with pretty much anyone and am a very caring person but am not empathetic to those who play victim in their own life. I'm realistic yet a dreamer at the same time. My movie collection resembles that of an adolescent boy but don't get it twisted...I don't want to sit around and watch anime all day either. I think everyone should have a hobby, yet I don't really have one...perhaps i just haven't made time for one. If you're still reading, you have earned a point. I'm sarcastic, goofy and giggle often. I love music, breakfast and using ellipses. I have a decent job which pays alright in this economy...good thing I got that Bachelor's degree. Actually, I love education and like to surround myself with people very different than me so that I may become more enriched through their different experiences. You may have read that I have a child, in fact I have two. If you are still reading, you now have two points. I'll be cliche and say they are my life because well they are and I don't have much free time outside of them. I will not be cliche by saying that I have no baby daddy drama...there is no relationship in the world that has no drama but if you want to know (which I guess if you're still reading, you do) I have a respectable relationship with the father of my son and haven't talked to my daughter's father in almost 4 years. I am a strong, single mom who doesn't expect anyone to take care of me or my children.I like to talk but not about myself, so if you would like to get to know me better...send me a message please rather than selecting "meet me". If you're not sure if I'm what you're looking for or if you're looking for a "hook up"...keep looking...and good luck! Hey, I'm all for equal rights but I would like a guy to actually plan a date. For me to be surprised...and by surprised I don't mean taking me to a strip club, out to the bar, or to "watch movies" at his place. Creativity is sexy...so I would let the guy choose the entertainment for the first date.Honestly, I'd rather meet first during the day for a smoothie or coffee...something more casual to see how comfortable we would be with each other first.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I I love music and animals. I have a Bachelor of music business and recording technology and I play piano, guitar, bass, and clarinet.I also have a part time job bartending at a concert venue because I enjoy going to concerts and making money for it. I like mostly indie and alternative rock, but enjoy many other types of music as well. I am shy, easy going, fun loving, and caring. I am looking for someone outgoing that enjoys going out, but doesn't mind relaxing at home either.

  • Kelley

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Hello-A little about me: I'm addicted to chocolate and sundresses. Skydiving and snowmobiling are on my bucket list. I know, 34 yrs old (ugh, 35 years old now. Maybe I will stop updating my age here), lived in MN most of my life and never been on a snowmobile. It's a crime around here. In my free-time, I enjoy going to comedy clubs, hanging out on patios with drinks, movies (either in theater or at home cuddled on the couch and I REALLY want to go to a drive-in), sitting around bonfires and, of course, shopping. I'm pretty laid back and am open to most things...I've learned that it's more about the company you're with. I have 3 boys from my marriage ages 11, 9 and 8. They are absolutely my favorite little men on this planet and my life is better because of them. They are sweet, silly, and there's never a dull moment. I'm a social worker and work with victims/survivors of domestic violence. It's my dream job and I couldn't be happier! Getting paid to do something I am passionate about is ALMOST as good as winning the lottery. I sincerely mean that. I wake up every morning excited to go to work and feeling blessed to be able to do something I love. A little about you: I'm looking for someone who is dependable, romantic, sweet, respectful, sincere, honest, and funny. I hope to find someone who believes in communication and long-term relationships. Bonus points if you smell good. ;) A little about what'll help us click:If you're still sleeping with your ex-wife, girlfriend, friend with benefits, we won't click. We really won't click if she's recently announced she's pregnant.If you want sex on a first date, we won't click. You'll be able to get it alot faster and easier with other girls. Just trust me on that.If you have an extensive criminal record, we won't click. This isn't just because of my morals/ethics but more so because I spend 50% of my work time in criminal court and really don't want to spend any of my free time there, standing by my man. If you still live with your parents, we won't click. I don't want my boys learning that grown men can still live with Mama....they're out at 18...no matter what.If you are offended by any of the first 4 and don't know that I'm laughing while writing this, we won't click.

  • Arline

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I have a 7 year old son, I'm a full time student, I know what I want out of life and I'm looking for someone to share that with. I'm pretty open to everything, except when it comes to dating, as in I'm not looking for one night stands or booty calls. If there's anything you would like to know send me a message.I also have 6 tattoos. Also please note that if I took a peak at your profile but didn't send a message it could be that I am a little shy to make the first move. I'm really not sure what else to put on here. I am NOT looking for fwb. Somewhere that we could talk and get to know eachother better.

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