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Sofia, 34
United States, Indiana, Hobart

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About Me

I'm a single mom of a four year old boy, I have him a lot but not all the time. I don't get out much and I don't know many people here yet. I'm looking to be friends first. However, in the long run, I am hoping to connect with someone on a deeper level. Most of us are ultimately here for the same reason. I'm just hoping to find someone that can appreciate me for me. I can be silly, and strange, and a little crazy sometimes, but I strive to always be a good person and set a good example for my son.Just to make this easier on both you and me, I will include some of my personal views. Children: I like kids, I can be a silly grown up kid. I have a kid, he's great. Have another child? No. Not up for debate. Date someone that has children? Absolutely. Meet my child? Not until I know I can trust your mental stability. Race: I have no problem with any race. If you do, we are likely going to butt heads.... Cus you're a butthead. However, please understand that if you send me a message that is not in English or French I will have to use a translator, and there will obviously be a language barrier if you do not speak either languages I do. I don't think that makes for a good relationship. Phone numbers/texting: This depends on the person. If you message me with just your number, you will not hear from me. I have been here long enough to realize that giving my number to someone I have hardly talked to can lead to problems. If I feel we click after messaging then no problem, but the basis for friendship has to be there first. Also, I do my best to not be "that girl". You know, the one that texts you constantly. I can take a hint. Mostly I don't want to interrupt anyone's life. If you have the number, text any time. If I'm available to text back, I will. If I don't, please do not send me five more. (Because I'm probably sleeping or working and unable to catch a minute). Hate mail: If you send me a message and I do not respond, I may have forgot to log out. The other alternative is that I have viewed your profile, and there is something in it that does not appeal to me. Please boys, if you don't hear from me.... Realize that sending me a message telling me I'm a stuck up jerk (and alternatives) will be a waste of your time, and I will laugh. Just like I laugh at the tag lines that say things like " all the girls on here are stuck up *** -if you really think that's going to attract a decent girl, by all means... Continue using this site. I wish you luck. And finally, as for my profile stating I am looking for a relationship... I am. I also am cool with just making friends. I'm not going to send hate mail, or get butthurt. You will most likely just get a new friend. Besides, I want to have a friend in a potential romantic partner. It's a great start. If there is no chemistry or spark, there just isn't. We will probably know after talking for a bit. It's really not a big deal to be friend zoned right? :) Something simple and easygoing. Coffee sounds good, maybe a drink somewhere quiet, or a walk at a park.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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