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Helen, 31
United States, Indiana, Hobart

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About Me

Hi Guys! *Please if you message me, be able to carry on a conversation...I don't want to exchange 10 *** how you're doing or how I'm doing lol. :) Also I'm VERY SERIOUS about finding a relationship on here with a mature adult man. Not seeking casual sex or playing stupid high school games*Hmm about me...-I'm Separated...not gonna lie and say divorced, although it will be finalized soon and there's no threat of reconcilliation romantically. -I'm a bigger girl, I'm working on it but it'll be a while before I'm a 'few extra pounds' so be aware of that before messaging me.-I'm 31 with no kids. I think its awesome if you have kids, but I don't and I don't plan on having any of my own.-I have my own place, my own vehicle, and a full time job. Also do some side work...I believe in working hard and playing hard.-I'm a guy's girl. I get along with most everyone and can be around your friends and your family without worry-I'm a HORRIBLE casual dater...not into seeing a bunch of different people, if I like you and you like me, then I keep going that direction-Fancy cars, designer clothes, jewelry and fine dining doesn't impress me. I'm not that girl.-I'm traditional, I like a guy who is excited enough about meeting me that he'll contact me first. I don't chase guys.-I like MMA (actually, I LOVE MMA) its a big part of my after work life...I used to have my own shows and I stay heavily involved-I also like football and want to finally see my first NFL or college game (GO DUCKS!) soon-I can be girly, I get my nails and my hair done and try to look great but have no issues in sweats...I pretty much am a jeans/tshirt kind of girl-I like to go out but also LOVE to stay in. Past the clubbing days, but don't mind happy hour or girl's night outs or going dancing-I'm Italian, german, irish, with some native american and french canadian mixed in...I'm feisty ;) -I hate scary movies, and it doesn't matter who's cuddling me...unless you have a blindfold and ear muffs, I don't like them hahaOkay that's enough about me, need to have stuff to talk about right??About you...-I want a guy who is FUNNY! Not a goofball all the time, but can make me laugh.-Confidence is very attractive, insecurity and jealousy is not-I need a STRONG man. Not meaning a guy with tons of muscles per say, but a guy who can stand up for himself, isn't a pushover. Mentally tough.-I love an attentive man...one who lets me know he's thinking of me, will text/call me-I do dig some facial hair on a guy but not a requirement lol-Bonus points if you like watching football(HUGE Bonus points if you like watching MMA) and can be social-If you're a Dad, be as good as one as you can be. I don't want to be in a relationship with a deadbeat dad, that's just embarrassing.-Tattoos are fine by me, crazy facial piercings are not lol-I'm more of a country girl than city girl so a guy who doesn't mind getting his hands dirty is attractive-Have your life at least somewhat together...living with your mom isn't ideal nor is not having a job.-Have honesty, integrity, and be someone who can be trusted. I'M NOT LOOKING FOR JUST SEX ON HERE - I can find it offline just fine...I am very serious about looking for a relationship. Hope to hear from you guys! :) Hmmm...you tell me? :) I like a guy who can plan something!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk Metal Punk English Irish Portuguese Drama Music
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