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Erica, 33
United States, Indiana, Granger

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About Me

****POF no longer allows me (or anyone?) to hide a profile for a while. I am not looking to date at this time. My boyfriend cheated on me so I dumped him and then found out I'm pregnant. And no one really wants to date a pregnant chick. Just putting this out there because I keep getting messages that otherwise I'd answer... but there is no point now. Sorry. Thanks, though. I'd be answering some of you otherwise. ****I thought I'd deleted this, but nope, they saved my profile. Guess I've been inducted into the Lifetime Members Hall of Fame. lolStill looking for a man who wants a real relationship. About me: I'm a writer for a marketing company. The cool thing is that I work ***percent on my own time, making my own schedule, and I don't have to go to an office every day. I have worked from the coffee shop, restaurants, hotels, and even on the beach. I've heard a lot of guys on here complain that all they can find is jobless women sitting around waiting to be rescued. Want a woman who has her life together? Here I am. I am not looking for someone to "take care of me". I have three really great kids. Children, that is, not goats. But I'd love to have some goats one day. Goat cheese is my passion. Anyway... Their dad pays child support but is otherwise uninvolved, so no drama there.I'm generally happier doing something outside, and something energetic. I'm not big on crowds, and I will not even consider moving to a big city. I don't watch a lot of TV - I'd rather be doing something. I'm creative and passionate and I enjoy learning new things. I enjoy cooking and I LOVE food. Fortunately I also love exercise. lolWhy am I single? (almost every guy who *** asks me this) I haven't found what I'm looking for. Plain as that.I should say something here about the type of woman I am. A lot of men are scared of dating a single mom. Even more are scared of dating a single mom who has children with special needs. But to me, that's ok. The type of man I am attracted to is strong, doesn't stereotype people, and isn't scared of anything. My kids were born with "severe and profound autism". But I never gave up on them, and one completely recovered (my daughter) while my sons improved tremendously, though yes they still have autism. But they are normal, happy boys. They are in mainstreamed classrooms at school and enjoy doing all the things that other kids do. And they're extremely affectionate, loving, and well behaved kids. None of the horror stories you may have heard apply to them. On top of fighting for them with everything I have, I managed to build a career for myself as a single mom with zero help from anyone. Why did I mention all that? Simple reason - The right man will admire my strength and dedication. He's looking for a woman who loves unconditionally, never gives up, and doesn't allow life to beat her down.I'm also aware that all the wrong men will be completely scared off by the above paragraph. Good. I don't like wasting my time :) I'm definitely looking for someone who isn't tied to a city. We should have common goals, and I don't intend to ever leave these mountains (other than trips, of course). Looking for someone who could enjoy a life immersed in nature, and doesn't need traffic, noise, and pollution all around him to be happy. Please don't bother if you're looking to find a woman who will move to your city. I love it here and need to find someone who also does.I should say that I've learned excessive snoring is a dealbreaker. Sorry... but I want someone I can snuggle up and sleep with.I feel like I'm a really great catch, and I have a lot to give the right man. Finding him, however, is proving to be a bit of a challenge. ;) Something very casual. Meet for lunch and see if we both look like our profile pictures lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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