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Kara, 31
United States, Indiana, Goshen

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About Me

This profile is a little different to most you’ve probably experienced. It’s longer for one. It’s intended to give a little more insight into who I am as a person. If you think you’ve seen this profile before, you’re right you have. I have been here before.This being my third time I'm now looking for a few things in the people I meet. One is a relationship. I’m not looking for a fling or a one night stand. Honesty, integrity and respect are important. I truly believe in being up front and honest. There is nothing I despise more then someone just cutting off contact when they’ve decided they’ve had enough rather than just telling me upfront and showing me some respect as a person. I’m also looking for chemistry, which actually involves me meeting you at some point. So if you’re looking for a pen pal, I’m not for you. I’m looking for a companion as well as a friend who is as passionate as he is reasonable. I’d also appreciate if you’ve got your life together. What I mean is, you have a stable job, a place to call your own and reliable transportation. If you have these things you’re doing well for yourself. Lastly, I’m looking for patience. I’m a little socially awkward at first, and like many people I have flaws. But I’m always looking to improve. Give me the chance. I’ve met a lot people on here who know exactly who they are and what they want and that’s great. I’m not there yet. I’m ever evolving, trying to better myself, trying simply to make my way. Like any human being I strive for more but I’m not unhappy with my life. It is modest. I make a decent living and now I would like to find someone to share my life with. I am a poet, a geek, and a sci-fi fan. As an English major I tend to look up new and interesting words to use in the right context. My favourite word right now is Machiavellian . As a drama minor I love movies and plays and tv shows.I love to laugh and dance, hang out with friends for dinner or just to talk, go to the movies, go to the beach in the summer or just a walk around town. I try to get to the gym at least three days a week and try to keep fit and healthy which is hard to do cause I love food. Not that I pig out on junk food, I just like carbs. I’m not really into sports. Sorry sports fans, I just don’t get the attraction but I’ve lived in a family of football (English)fanatics so I’ll listen when you talk about it I just don’t know if I can pretend I’m interested.I work in Insurance as a junior underwriter. I just fell in really. I’m making it work but I’m also looking for something to really drive me, so I’m not sure if I’ll be in insurance forever.I am family oriented and want one of my own some day. Don’t worry, that doesn’t mean my womb is screaming at me or anything.And I’m Catholic. Don’t judge me on that alone, talk to me first. I don’t really fit in anywhere. And that’s okay.So if you’re not too confused or intimidated right now I’ll leave it with you. Send me a messageIf I don’t answer back it’s nothing personal. I haven’t dismissed you out of hand, I just may not be interested. Coffee is a great start but I'm open to ideas.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Chinese Japanese
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