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Lydia, 35

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About Me

I am looking for someone who can give me a challenge mentally and physically. I'd like to spend time with someone who can me me laugh, but at the same time hold an intellectual conversation. I tend to lean towards the low key, jeans and t-shirt type over the decked out club goers. My days at DJais are well over :) My ideal first date would be something that doesn't put either if us in an uncomfortable position. Coffee, appetizers, anything that doesn't require a night commitment just in case it's not a match. A low pressure date works best. No hard feelings if we don't click. It's all about chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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