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Kitty, 33
United States, Illinois, Carol Stream

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TBA.....(Working on it!)............(This in no way reflects my time management skills!):P............Okay, okay! Apparently no profile info = people think you are fake. I don't blame you. I would think the same thing! Here goes...So, I have been out of the dating world for approximately 7 years. 5 of which were spent in a relationship and 2 were spent doing that ever elusive thing called, "finding myself". I had a (blind and typical), silly pattern of jumping from one major relationship to another. (Whoa! Lesson learned). Two years ago I decided I wouldn't engage with anyone until I was fully, completely pieced together and ready to offer someone amazing things from a pure intentioned place. (Two years is a loooooong time!). So often, we jump from stone to stone across a river and forget the beauty of sitting down and dangling our feet in the water. Upon realizing that finding yourself was a dangling carrot, a constant journey, a lifetime of culminations and circumstances yet to be had, I came to the conclusion that I am as prepared as I will ever be so, here I am :) (I am not sure I even remember how to do it organically let alone learning the rules and etiquettes of doing it through an Iphone. Forgive my ***! It's not as easy as riding a bike. My friend is a darn liar). I love, love, love walking. Spain. Exploring. Digging my toes in dirt. Discovering. Learning. Evolving. Travelling! Alone time. The Great Barrier Reef. Philanthropy. Entrepreneurialism. Negotiations. Buildings. Architecture. Buying buildings with great architecture. Renovating (both internally and objects around me). My job. My family. Pottery wheels. Dill Pickle Crispers. Theatre. Music! Slam poetry. Photography. Writing. People watching. My city. Long, aimless drives. Clean laundry....(Oh the list could go on for days. Alas, I should stop since I am even boring myself.)I am past my party phase but, it doesn't mean I have forgotten how to get jiggy with it. ...(I just did a hip shake to prove it to myself. It was awkward)... All it means is that clubs are far from a focus and I have way too many goals to sit at a bar and drink them away. My business and my charity endeavours take up a lot of my time and I hope to find someone who is equally motivated in their own life. Someone who has their own successes and isn't looking to be carried. Someone who is working for the greater good or at least strives to impact those around them in a positive way. I just want a nice, "normal", down to earth gal to hook arms with with me and walk through this wonderful and crazy thing called life. Is that too much to ask? There are so many great things I have to be thankful for in my little world and I really just want to share it with someone. (*dork*)(Sidebar: the word "normal" to me only means someone who is kind hearted, good intentioned, doesn't lie, cheat or steal etc. I am pretty laid back and easy going but there are a few lines I don't cross and I don't care to associate with those who do!)Let me clear something up since, the touted box seems to be missing from my outer attire and people don't know where to shove me... In a couple of my profile pictures I am wearing lipstick. Yes, this happens from time to time but, I am usually more the masculine energy in a relationship. Or, so says the psychic I visited. I don't really fit into any of the labels people throw around here. I can dress up yes (and sometimes love indulging my girly side) but, I would much prefer you wear the heels. Or, maybe you wear them one day and I will wear them the next. (Although, please have your own pair because I am really finished with amalgamated closets!). I am not into things like clothing labels or fussy high maintenance people. I am usually out the door within 10 minutes of waking up unless I have a meeting where I have to be impressive and then it takes 15. I strive to live life in balance. I suppose that is why I don't fit on the "femme" side nor the "butch". My inner ballast keeps me right smack in the middle and it's where I live most authentically.Perhaps that means waiting a little to find my counterpart but, I am in no rush and will most certainly enjoy the journey to get there. :)(Operative words: No Rush! I am quite happy buzzing along, doing my own thing and am not looking for someone to manipulate my time. Or, try to make me feel guilty or be angry if I don't respond to a text right away. I refuse to deal with that kind of drama anymore. It's all just a silly game that I don't want to play). So come by and say hi if you can relate to any of the above. Maybe say more though. :) I currently have some friend vacancies as well since mine all fell victim to those darn babies. We don't have to be a heart match to be a friend match! (Did I just say that out loud?)*palm slaps forehead*Oy. This is why I left my profile blank ;) Walk? Coffee? Skydive? (I naively thought I wouldn't have to put a disclaimer but, no men or couples please! Best of luck in your search but, just not what I am looking for. I am super duper gay. Thanks!)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Metal Play Musical Instrument Canadian Indonesian Korean Middle Eastern Turkish
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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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    Let me throw on my narcissistic goggles and give this a whirl.Outgoing yet sometimes bashful. Kind and considerate (after 10am). Firm believer that actions speak louder than words...althoooough, communication IS key. A sucker for brunettes. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I like it there. If sarcasm was a sport, I'd be Varsity. I'm in love with love, oh and love. Halfway through achieving my RN degree...slowly but surely I will conquer this heinous academic warfare. Enjoys all of the glorious things in life that are most commonly mentioned; laughing, friends, family, road trips, ANYthing goofy, great movies, people-watching and scrumdillyumptious food. I maintain strong determination in working hard for those I love and the things that I want. Avid jogger with a bad knee, but can still be taken out dancing. I positively enjoy: bananas, taking trips to NYC, mah b*tches, putting ketchup on everything, pastaaaa, trying out new recipes, f*#king up new recipes, awesome tunes penetrating my ears, practical jokes, kinky thoughts, being tightly snuggled, and last but not least, not having to think any further of things to list about myself. :) ummm I guess a whole lotta talking, clearly, I mean we gotta get to know one another somehow and smoke signals never work. Crossing my fingers that there will be a lot of laughing and witty remarks, by both parties. Good drinks, good food and good fun. Its pretty simple when it comes to first date etiquette. Although, large chance I'd be down to go bungee jumping too. *shrugs*

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 29-39

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 32-42

    To Flip Flop, *** CarrieStarr & the others: I'd love to message you back, but something in your settings makes it impossible.I'm not sure what's going on with meetville lately, but it's not letting me message people, saying I am the wrong age or sex or what ever, yet there is nothing in your mail settings to suggest it's true. (Try sending me you *** meetville: "...If your profile contains sexual language of any kind your account will be deleted. ..."I wonder if "kissing", "caresssing", "Bi-Sexual" "BDSM" & "Submissive/Kajira wanted" is considered "sexual language"...? [ Oh, and let's not forget (since I am considering it), "Long term Throuple" ]LOLBTW...1. The "Marital Status" would be more accurate if it were to let us state: "Not Single & Looking" :-) [Rob is 6'02", for those of you who asked](In that same vein, I wonder why "Male" & Female" are the only 2 choices in the Gender category. Why wouldn't Transgendered & Intersexed be there also?)2. The "I am looking for" would be more accurate if it were to let us state: "Friendship with the intent of Dating, (hopefully) leading to a long term Throuple { ;-) tc } relationship"If I've visited/viewed (and read) your profile and you didn't get a notice that I've added you to my "Favourite" list, sorry, but that means I didn't see/feel a connection between us, for whatever reason (especially true if you don't have photos and for straight couples, but for very specific reasons).(Women can always send me a message saying why I should add them if they are single OR play alone).I try to respect those of you who don't approve of Bi-Sexual women, but, if it's not indicated on your profile, you don't have to be nasty in your reply...(btw, here is a very good article on dating someone Bi: *** )I am a (we are) BIG TIME Animal Lover(s) & Dog Rescuer(s) (We organize a big fundraiser event every year called WienerFestMontreal to promote rescues & adoption)Here is something you won't read very often on here: - Bi-Curious WELCOMED (Hey, I used to be one, so why would I knock it...you have to start somewhere!)And for something the you WILL find on here on almost every FSF profile:- Single Men: NOT interested (AT ALL)- Couples: Only interested in the Female part of your couple (sorry Guys, but I already have one that more than satisfies me there)Just recently re-joined meetville. It had been a while since we'd been on here .I used to have a fairly long (and, hopefully, interesting) profile for people to read, BUT, since most people on here don't seem to read profile, I decided to keep this one fairly simple.Feel free to drop me a line (or two) if you have any questions/comments, but keep in mind that the initial message has to be at least 50 characters long, so "Hi" probably won't cut it. (as an example, the bold portion of the preceding phrase was 50 characters long) Coffee while Kissing/Caressing the puppies (the actual puppies, not the euphemism...lol).:-)

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