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Shelby, 32
United States, Illinois, Carol Stream

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About Me

Giddy up, here goes... WHO AM I?I am a passionate, vibrant and energetic soul who wants to devour everything life has to offer! I'm open-minded, honest, adventurous and silly- not a day goes by where I don't crack jokes- but I'm also very organized, ambitious and practical. I just may be a living oxymoron. I'm a solid Tomboyfemme- I have a serious tomboy side but can do the femme thing with ease. What else? I work hard but like to let loose at times. I'm pretty young-at-heart. I care deeply about my biological and chosen families... I must admit I've done a great job at surrounding myself with incredible people. I have worked in theatre for the past decade as a writer and director, sometimes as a performer... somehow I've now done almost 80 productions (crazy!). I also teach, which is taking over the freelance work I've been doing for years. Still trying to figure out how to balance the time to fit in all the passions into one life..... let me know if you've found one- don't be greedy and keep it all to yourself! THINGS I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE:* Food: I love trying new restaurants and cooking new crazy vegetarian things. I'm serious about snacking- we've been going steady for years.* And lots of yoga... big time yogi over here. I'm guess I'm a bit of a fitness addict. The push-up isn't just a bra, people, it's good times!* Learning new things: I'm also a bit of an education addict. If someone would just pay me to go to school forever I would. I have collected 4 degrees thus far: Bachelors Degrees in Psychology, Theatre, and Fine Arts Education as well as a Masters in Creative Writing. One day I may return, but for now I s'pose that's enough legal-sized paper.* Culture: I love going to plays, dance (drool, I so love dance), art galleries, festivals, amusement parks, music events, readings and more...* Travel: I am always up for going to new places....... it's amazing!). Kinda jonesing to go back to South East Asia... it tickled my heart. NOW WHAT?Let's meet. You may think it forward, but I will ask you to meet pretty quickly. I'm not interested in messaging for ages first because I think that until we meet we can't really be sure if there is any chemistry. Those first ten minutes speak volumes... after that I guarantee we'll know if there's something there, or not. There mussst be chemistry :) Second date: Eat something exotic. See a show. Go for drinks, talk about strange and unusual things. First date: Just coffee- so we can sniff each other's butts first (okay, weird joke).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Swimming Japanese Mexican
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