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Randi, 31
United States, Illinois, Carol Stream

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About Me

PLEASE READ!!!"Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today!" - James Dean"Dance like nobody's watching!" Now that I have your attention, all I ask, is that you are honest and straight up. If you are capable of that, then please read on.......If you are looking to get your rocks off by typing dirty messages forever, good for you BUT not for me, if you are not interested in meeting in person and actually "dating" good for you, BUT not for me, if you are married or if you are looking for a FWB, again good for you, BUT not for me. If you are a decent guy with his head screwed on straight, you know what you want and you are capable of communicating that, then please read below to learn about me and feel free to send me a message if you think we'd click! :)I am a very independent, outgoing woman. I am career driven, I work hard and play hard. I am a social butterfly, but also enjoy a great night in. I come from a very large European family which translates to lots of talking, lots of love, lots of yelling, lots of functions, lots of food, and a whole lot of passion. Family is very important to me! I believe I was raised well, with good morals and values. I live on my own, I am educated with a good career. I am confident in who I am and passionate about all that I do. I love to be spontaneous and try new things. I am a down to earth, honest, open minded, straight forward person. I love people and getting to know them. Nothing turns me on more than a great conversation or debate! I believe in fate and karma, and since we only live once, we should live it up! I am a bit old fashioned when it comes to relationships and I quite enjoy taking care of my home and my partner. I love to cook and my slight OCD means my house is always clean with the dishes done and laundry put away! I must admit, I dislike the outdoor chores of cutting the lawn, taking out the trash and shoveling the snow, but a girl has to do what a girl has to do lol! ;pI am interested in someone who can make me laugh, stimulate me intellectually and have a good time. I love a mans man, a guy who doesn't mind getting his hands dirty. I am a sucker for intriguing eyes, nice teeth and a beautiful smile. At some point I would like to be married with children. I am very allergic to most animals and can never own a pet! I prefer to date someone older, taller, similar religion, single (no kids) and living close by. I have recently lost a bunch of weight and still have a way to go. Having said that, I am looking for someone who will work out with me, and push me hard to reach my goals!"If you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best!!" - Marilyn MonroeP.S. I'm not into hours of on-line chatting, if we click after a few online/phone chats, lets meet and see if there is real life chemistry, if so great, if not, at least we don't waste too much time. Please do not add me as a favourite, if you do not intend to send a message, and please do not contact me if you have zero intention of ever meeting in person. Rather than clicking you want to meet me, send a message. Please do not waste my time.Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened!! Something social where you can get to know each other. Coffee, dinner, drinks, mini putting, sporting event, NOT a movie! Or you could surprise me ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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