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Stacy, 32
United States, Illinois, Carol Stream

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Been thinking a lot, maybe a little too much. The whole dating thing isn't really me, but I guess that's what they call it before a relationship is established. For me, meeting someone is enough to figure out whether or not that other someone is truly genuine or too faulty/flaky; especially if they stick around long enough. First impressions don't go away and I understand for example- even myself has said silly/stupid things out of nervousness. However those kinds of things can be overlooked like reading between the lines. Sure I should be some what attracted and impressed by someone just being themselves no putting on a front or a disguise. Scooby Doo where are you... I want to feel mentally and emotionally connected with my future investment. If it turns out friendship is better, great the more friends the merrier. Don't know what my future husband will think of that, but I will never cheat. Back to the main point I was trying to say, I am not sure if I should be with someone or not. What I want is for all the right reasons, not everyone is on the same page though. Deep down I live with a few old fashioned values true to me and feel I deserve to be taken care of, and my child included. I'm a decent exceptional homemaker most men would only hope for, after they married or been with the wrong gal for too long to figure it out. Although I could be wrong, and I truly am the exception. The way I am able to go about things. First I like to attempt to establish a connection through messages that which breathes some of your essenses (as well as mine in reciprocation) and gives me ideas of your worth to me on a mental level. I like notes, letters, something that someone puts time and effert into tells me what I need to know. It gets my heart and soul going, if you don't have time for that and prefer short and sweet; proceed to exit now and go to the next profile as I am a waste of your precious time. It's not the real deal until it's for real-real. This country lady likes to take things a little more steady. Secondly, that comes in time and by then you'll know enough about me and my little quirks.; a treasure to call my own... Hoping to gracefully merge into a relationship with my best friend and see where it belongs in God's masterpiece. The future must be open to marriage which is what I desire to share with one man for life. The life I live has some baggage and I tell it like it is straight up and forward. Nobody is perfect, and not one cookie cutter could replicate this piece of work. I am unique, one of a kind, and hard to find. I was designed by God; No one said it would be easy for me to live my life. I just accept what is thrown at me and make the best of it each day, and keep on moving forward. Proud to say I've lost weight, and will continue to work on staying healthy. I'm not a toothpick and I never will be, I'm a real woman. Life is full of blessings and misfortunes, yet I remain grateful through out. If you like me enough or fall for me, nothing will stand in the way of true love and happiness. I can't promise that if we meet that it will work out, that is a chance both parties must make. No failure if the feeling is mutual, win-win if both parties decide it's "the one." If one is in and the other is out, that's just part of the risk we all take to see if the pieces fit. Don't get stuck in quick sand over these hit and misses, keep looking!Things about me: -Open minded for the most part, try to keep an open door policy -Honesty is the best policy, say it straight don't be too late-A little shy until I'm comfortable-The past is the past, adds to character of who one has become-I'm Christian but not going to push religion into someones face, live and let live -I like most music and movie genres -Stay at home parent/homemaker -Live with my parents -I don't drive, not sure if/when I will, just never had the itch to do so -Only have one child who is 5 -Not much of a drinker more for a special occasion, I'm a sipper if anything-Not a party girl I'd rather have an entertaining party at home with decent people safe/sane fun In my future partner these are my main requests:*Accepting of my child*Knows how to compromise when needed or agree to disagree not escalate the situation*Communication: express feelings, thoughts,plans, ideas... otherwise what is the point if we can't share.*Must drive, if I don't I need a partner that does and can look past that*No FWB! *Non-smoker is my preference as I don't smoke. Light smoker okay. *Light drinker/occasional drinker okay as long as you're not Dr. *I message first to get to know people before deciding to meet, then decide to start a relationship, friendship, or nothing at all.Thank you for taking the time to read my profile, not everyone will get a message from me. Just keep swimming :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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