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Bobbi, 31
United States, Illinois, Carol Stream

Offline, last seen Mon, 16 Mar 2026 18:38:46

About Me

When people ask if I want the good news or the bad news first... I always go bad news first. I like to get the bad news out of the way and end on the good news! Bad news- I bite my nails, I can be kind of type A with my list-making, and I also cuss like a sailor... And as opposed to learning it from my rancher father, I actually picked it up from my cute little grandma! That's a pretty good segue into why I am on meetville. My grandma got sick last year and was in the hospital. My grandpa sat by her bedside. She'd say "You there?" and he'd reply "I'm here." I want that. I don't need it now, but I'd like to start building to it. I always knew being in such a strong relationship took work, but I guess I recently realized that it takes work to find too. So here we are...Admittedly I am realizing that I may not be cut out for online dating. I am a really good communicator and I expect people to return the favor or at least the effort. I know it's easy to make split second decisions about people on here but I just have one request: treat me with the same respect I would treat you. If I message you and I'm not your cup of tea, that's ok if you don't reply. I'll get the point and appreciate you not wasting my time. But if we chat back and forth or make plans, please follow through even if it's to tell me you changed your mind. Hopefully not sounding too full of myself... I'm a really awesome woman in what seems to be a shortage. I come from a great family, I have my sh*ttogether and I'm one of those people that everyone wants to be around. So please don't waste my time... I'd rather be spending it with people who are willing to make an effort to get to know me or who already have and love me!Thanks for reading! :) Meeting for coffee and then a walk at the park, or maybe catch a yoga class together. I like bars and restaurants, but I like to leave that for second or third dates. Lots of laughing!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Irish Japanese Crime Martial Arts Romance
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  • Sheryl from Carol Stream | Woman | 35 years old | Taurus
    Sheryl

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Hello I am a full time worker and a full time mom. I am looking for a romantic guy who can treat a lady with respect be honest,caring, open doors like a man should be.I want to be romanced and treated like a woman. I'm not looking for one night stand or a player type man don't message me I will not respond. .I will like you on the way you treat women ,me especially .Be Intellegent ,Honest, not a cheater please.I would like to be swept off my feet by someone one day, I wil probably the most loving woman you will meet besides a family member it's just me.I am looking for a man who is caring and loving are you out there? Thanks and happy fishing lol jolene(FYI)sorry I don't date black men just by choice My first date would be flowers,dinner, anything to be around you so we can meet and get to know each other, suprise me I love suprises!

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  • Cathleen from Carol Stream | Woman | 34 years old | Scorpio
    Cathleen

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    If you really want to get to know me, send me a msg.....Ok a lil about me, I'm a mom of 4 great kids, that keep me pretty busy, I share custody w their dad, so I have them alot, if you don't like kids, then move on...BTW if we start dating and things go well, you won't meet my kids till its on a serious level. I'm looking for someone that wants friends first and move forward from there, I believe in a great friendship to make the relationship work. I go to church and love GOD, not a bible thumper at any means, but enjoy goin to church and being around people that are happy! I'm laid back, like to take things slow, not in a rush to get married tomorrow, but would like to again in the future. I like spring and fall more than summer and winter. Like to be outside, Love to laugh, and spend time w family and friends. Wanting a christian man...Wanting someone w a romantic side. Someone that can make me laugh. I'm looking for a man that is considerate, kind, loving and has a good heart. Someone that is great w kids, if you have kids, great, even if you don't, I prefer it if you are around them, I've dated guys that say they want a relationship but don't want to take on the 4 kids that come with it, we are a pkg deal, take it or leave it. I prefer a non smoker also.I want to feel loved and wanted, the type that can't wait to talk to me or can't wait to see me and spend time with me (but I don't want someone that is too clingy)...I want someone that I can't stop thinking about, I'm tired of being alone and want to find my best friend, lover, and be happy. I want someone to love me for who I am, and not what they want me to be. Also, if you don't have a pic on your profile, I won't respond..and no I wont give you my *** number to send me a pic..sorry!I don't like the whole BBW thing for myself..so I'm trying to change that about me, so far have lost 40 lbs and counting, so I'm working on that, I don't go to the gym, but I enjoy walking or going to the park or working outside and just watching what I eat, would like someone that is supportive in that area also, someone that enjoys the same interests as I do..I'm not looking for someone that likes to play games and lead me on, that won't get you anywhere..I am NOT looking for one night stands, or FWB, so don't ask! Don't be afraid to start up a conversation, you never know where it could lead! If anything, I have some new friends..But please don't get offended if you send me a msg and i don't respond back. Please have a recent pic, not one of you back in high school, or 10 yrs ago..I wanna know what you look like now, since I have done the same, it's only fair.. Anything else, just ask! Thanks for looking and hope to hear from you soon!PS. If I favorite you, it's because I liked your profile, and your pics, and maybe one of these days you just might get the courage to send me a msg, or I will do the same..LOL Go for dinner & a walk in the park. Or some place where we can talk and get to know each other. It all depends on the person & the season..Really doesn't matter to me, as long as we are enjoying ourselves. It's been way too long since I have been on a date. Or SURPRISE ME!!

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  • Ila from Carol Stream | Woman | 33 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Just a bit about me first I have children and they are my whole world I would do anything in the world for them. I also consider them some of my bestfriends. I love spending time outside doing things. up for trying most things at least once. Like music concerts of most kinds. Love the theater. Girly movies. And just hanging out. I'm comfortable going out or just as happy to stay in make some food and cuddle on the couch. If you want to know more just ask. And ps I am very spontanious and love to have fun.

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