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Rae, 31
United States, Illinois, Bourbonnais

Offline, last seen Thu, 19 Feb 2026 14:26:21

About Me

I try not to take life too seriously, but do when I need to. I'm great at sculpting to my surroundings, but most of the time I like to see if I can get away with being myself. I love to laugh, and be around people that can make me laugh. I am openminded, adventurous, fun-loving, out-going, and social. I know when it's time to work and when it's time to play, which is a fine line I've learned to walk over the years.I was married young and have been divorced for about 5 years now. At first I was happy to have my independence and definitely have had my share of good times, but I'm starting to realize that I miss love... I never thought I'd admit that! It's so hard to find and sucks when it falls apart but hey... Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Do i expect to find love here? Not really, but you never know and at the very least it's entertaining. I'm hoping I might stumble across a guy that is on my level. Someone comfortable in their own skin. Someone who wants to spend time with me but can let me do my own thing sometimes. Lemme know if you're into any of my loves below... That should give us something to talk about!****ing up and learning from it, working hard, playing harder, believing in karma, learning about other cultures, creepy conversations about paranormal phenomena, national geographic, 80 degree weather, being active, hibernating in winter, movies, Sunday night network shows, massages, snuggling, hoodie footie pjs, a clean, comfy home. I'm open to just about anything but if you're looking for a quick hookup I already have people I can call for that... :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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