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Rae, 31
United States, Illinois, Bourbonnais

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About Me

I try not to take life too seriously, but do when I need to. I'm great at sculpting to my surroundings, but most of the time I like to see if I can get away with being myself. I love to laugh, and be around people that can make me laugh. I am openminded, adventurous, fun-loving, out-going, and social. I know when it's time to work and when it's time to play, which is a fine line I've learned to walk over the years.I was married young and have been divorced for about 5 years now. At first I was happy to have my independence and definitely have had my share of good times, but I'm starting to realize that I miss love... I never thought I'd admit that! It's so hard to find and sucks when it falls apart but hey... Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Do i expect to find love here? Not really, but you never know and at the very least it's entertaining. I'm hoping I might stumble across a guy that is on my level. Someone comfortable in their own skin. Someone who wants to spend time with me but can let me do my own thing sometimes. Lemme know if you're into any of my loves below... That should give us something to talk about!****ing up and learning from it, working hard, playing harder, believing in karma, learning about other cultures, creepy conversations about paranormal phenomena, national geographic, 80 degree weather, being active, hibernating in winter, movies, Sunday night network shows, massages, snuggling, hoodie footie pjs, a clean, comfy home. I'm open to just about anything but if you're looking for a quick hookup I already have people I can call for that... :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Music Mystery Dance
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Just got out of a long term relationship and Id rather poke my eyes out than go back to the clubs and bars... So here I am.Heres my fun facts:I design Celebrity perfume bottles for a living and I work a ton. I'm related to Charles Lindbergh.I LOVE to travel. If you have a passport, you have already won my heart.I am a big fan of lazy Sundays home on the couch with takeout and a movie or two.Total technology geek/Mac girl.I'm mostly Greek and Irish.I can beat you at Tetris. I am sure of it.I like to snowboard but I am terrible at it.My real hair color is brown.I have no tattoos.I love all types of music, especially electronic. Always happy and not confrontational. Super easy going.. no drama. I never get angry and I am looking for someone who is the same.I consider myself to be intelligent, and I am usually attracted to guys who are smarter than me.Never had a serious relationship that lasted less than five years.I am a very good judge of character.Biggest pet peeve: poor grammar/spellingIm way more interested in what your profile says than what you look like. If your profile shows a picture of your tattoos or on a motorcycle, there is nothing wrong with those things, but you are just like everyone else on here.Also not into guys who take cell phone pics of themselves in the mirror.

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