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Terra, 33
United States, Iowa, Storm Lake

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I have an Associates Degree in Paralegal Studies, which I do not use in my current job. I have worked for the same company for 13 years, working 4 ten hour days. I am currently looking to advance in my career.I am a phenomenal woman. I refuse to change myself for anyone. I am the way I am, and I love it. You shouldn't have to change your beliefs, morals, or priorities for anyone. I am set in my ways and I believe I have my head on straight. My son comes first. My family comes first. My man comes first. I only have a few close friends but they are the best friends I could have ever wished for. I trust them with anything and wouldn't doubt their intentions for a second.I am independent and I am thankful for that. I love to laugh and smile, and just be comfortable being myself around someone. My history with men is just that, HISTORY. We all have a past, a present, and a future. I was stuck in the past for a while, I guess you could say I was settling. It is now crystal clear that I deserve SO MUCH MORE than what I was allowing myself to have. I will no longer settle for less than what I deserve.What I am looking for:Someone who can put a real smile on my face, and keep it there. Someone who makes me feel good enough for them, not make me feel like I have to prove it on a daily basis. Someone who wants me in their life. Someone who thinks about me and smiles. Someone who has their priorities straight, and "hanging with friends" isn't at the top of their list every time. Maybe put "job, family, or projects" at the top of the list every once in a while. Someone who will sincerely have my back, as I will have his. Someone who is faithful, trustworthy, and has a sweet and sincere personality. Someone who can uphold a monogamous relationship without struggle. Someone who is looking for ONE phenomenal woman; I'm not trying to be one of many in your life. Someone who can look into my eyes and see how my heart melts for you when you look at me a certain way. Someone who can see just how special I really am, and appreciate it.;worth it".I believe that ALL relationships take a little work. Just like anything else in life. If you want a job bad enough, you'll work for it, right? My motto is: If you want a relationship to work, you have to work at it." You just have to decide which person is the right person in your eyes, and conquer them. Invest your time and energy because that shows you care. Actions DO speak louder than words. Everything isn't going to just happen magically every single time. You will not agree on every single thing for the rest of your lives. I think the key is consideration, compromise, and agree to disagree. It's ok to disagree. No two people are exactly alike in this world. Remember, opposites attract ;) Something where we can talk to each other and enjoy ourselves.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    No Hook-ups serious inquires onlyNo baby mamma/ex gf dramaI want to find Mr. Right..or Mr. Right for me. I can be a bit difficult at times but I think that with patience, understanding, and communication all things can be worked through.******UPDATES******All of the above STILL appliesHowever, I would also like to add the following:If you are my mom's/dad's age ***or older....I'm not interested, if so I would probably date one of their friends I have known since birth and save the risk of becoming someone's lampshadeI do not wish to date the darker persausion...I AM NOT PREDJUDICE.....why are you even trying to date someone that far away??? I live here. My career is here. My child is here. I do not want to live with you and be "taken care of" and besides, HAVE YOU SEEN THE PRICE OF GAS LATELY???Which brings me to another point: I do not care what you drive, how big your house is, your boat, your motocycle, how many hours you spend in the gym...all of these are quite superficial qualities and if you are using these items as status quo or to "bait" girl phishes...I definitely am not the girl for you as material things are of limited importance...please have a job, a car, somewhere to lay your toothbrush (cause it won't be my house until we get to that point), and take decent care of yourself...simplicity can be awesomeWOW...MORE UPDATESI don't wish to delete the other stuff because ***It's funny and gives you insight to my own quirky sense of humor & ***It still applies...however, there a few things I must add to get my point across APPARENTLY....No longer accepting appications for anyone over 39....When I said that I DO NOT date the "darker persuasion"...I meant BLACK guys...there I said it...tried to be nice about it but either you don't read profiles, didn't understand what that means, or just don't care and either of those three you get an automatic BLOCK....If you have sent me multiple messages and I did not reply (yes, I get busy sometimes and am not always able to check) but more than three without a reply, generally means...I'm NOT intersted and didn't want to be mean...from this day forward you will get mean or just get BLOCKED....PLEASE for the LOVE OF GOD...quit sending me the same generic message multiple times in a row...I'm glad you know how to copy and paste but hey, how many other chicks are you sending the same generic message to?? JUST STOP>>>BLOCK!!! At this point...It may take an act of Congress and even then, I will probably be kicking and screaming...FYI: I'm bringing a taser and a billy club :)

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I was referred to this site by a friend because I am a full-time single mom with 2 boys and don't get too much of a chance to get out to meet people. I like to live an active and healthy lifestyle and would like to get out of the house more to meet some fun and interesting people. If a relationship comes out of it, even better. My ideal guy would be someone who is outgoing, sweet, charming, honest, has his s**t together for the most part, makes me laugh, but most importantly, someone who i am attracted to physically and have a connection with. I do have 2 boys so don't mind at all being with a guy who has kids himself. I would definitely not want to bring my boys into the mix until well after knowing a guy. But what attracts me to a guy most is the way he connects with kids, especially mine. Like to just go out for coffee or drinks just to get to know a guy.

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am a single mother of 3 children who live with me full time. I usually don't have trouble finding a sitter. I enjoy hanging home or going out. I am usually game for just about anything...). I am usually game to try anything once. I would love to meet in a public place but somewhere that was still quiet. That way we can actually hear each other and get to learn more about one another. I do have a few great date ideas for later.

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