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Effie, 32
United States, Iowa, Storm Lake

Offline, last seen Tue, 17 Mar 2026 13:43:05

About Me

i have 3 beatuiful Kids. What u see is what u get. I am a fantastic girl who is honest and caring and i will not change who i am for anyone. So if u think u can handle me feel free to write. If u dont like me at my best u wont be able to handle me at my worst. i am a huge ducks fan and love the blazers and try and go to as many games as i can. I want a honest man who can treat me with me respect and love me for me. i have been hurt in the past and now i want a man not a kid. I love Movies, shopping, spending time with my Family. I I am looking for a man who loves ny children and understand that my children are always number one in my life.. I wanna be loved and cared for.. I love baking and relaxing at home. Love to listen to music and play video games. I know I'm not pretty or skinny but I love myself. And if you wanna write me please be serious about conversation dont write me and not wanna get to know me, I dont have time for games and if you dont wanna talk dont waste my time. I am a Fun-Loving, Independent, careing, loving person who knows how to have fun and can show you fun, I like to try new things and willing to try anything.I want to learn to Sky-dive and go bunging jumping at some point in my life, I live adventure and i like to be outdoors. I need a man who is honest and wants to get to know me not write me and not wanna talk or ask questions i dont got time for the childesh games. If you are serious please write and talk to me and get to know me. I am a shy person at first but once i open up and ge to know you i am fun and caring and out-going. I am not looking for a hook-up or Friends with Benefits its been a long time since my last relationship so i want someone Serious.. I am a shy, unique girl that has good morals and good standards, If this doesnt scare you off please feel free to talk to me and get to know each other.. lately I feel I am always in the "FRIEND ZONE" and I want more than a friend i want love and to be cherished I derserve to be given a chance to prove that i am a good person and can be the perfect soul mate. I hope peole will give me the chance to prove this.. please if all ur *** is my boobs snd just talk about them and want pic's please don't contact me. All I hear is boob this boob that seriously i am more then boobs I am human!!!! Good dinner and a movie and a good long conversation..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cycling Music Caribbean Japanese Adventure War Basketball
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