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Mabel, 34
United States, Iowa, Clinton

Offline, last seen Sat, 29 Nov 2025 22:07:26

About Me

Full Disclosure: I have two beautiful boys, ages 3.5 and 1.5, and I'd be lying if I tried to say I'm not looking for someone who will end up loving them as much as he loves me (eventually). But you and I would have to get pretty serious for you to even meet my little dudes, so no need to freak out just yet. I realize 95% of you can't fathom fatherhood in the near, or even distant, future so my expectations have been adjusted accordingly. It's more important to find someone who fits ME and we can worry about everything else later. Another detail I should share is my divorce is not finalized yet - this takes an exceptionally long time when children are involved. And, I'm pissed meetville made me pick only one of those words to describe myself. I'm so many of those things: hedonist, hopeless romantic, crafty, foodie, traveler, the list goes on...Now that we have that part out of the way... I guess the most important thing about me, and something that I hope sets me apart from other women you might meet, is I am proud of who I am, and I'm not embarrassed to be myself. I'm comfortable in my own skin and I love to have fun and be silly. I'm confident in my beliefs and I rarely second guess my decisions once they're made. I'm a strong, independent, successful woman. I don't need a man to take care OF me, but I sure would love one who will care ABOUT me and is excited to share a life together.I'll try just about anything, as long as it doesn't endanger my bank account or my health. I guess I'm a calculated risk taker. I won't ever sky-dive. I'll try most foods at least once, but I draw the line at live animals. Dead ones are usually pretty awesome. I love going to new places, world-wide. If I bothered to make a bucket list, it would be way too long. So when the opportunity strikes, I take advantage. I'm not the kind of mom who won't travel without the kids, so romantic getaways are still in the cards, along with fun family trips.I'm a Research Biologist in big pharma and I moved here with work. I lived in the 'burbs outside Philly for 10 years before moving here, and what a difference! I love city living. My street has a sort of 50's neighborhood vibe, everyone is friendly. We put each other's trash cans away on pick-up day, and shovel the older woman's sidewalk across the street. It's a real community and I think that's missing from most people's lives now.I'm looking for someone genuine, who's not perfect but really tries his best, who's not selfish and is empathetic. It would be nice to find someone adventurous, but it's okay (probably preferable) if you don't base jump.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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