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Sasha, 35
United States, Iowa, Clinton

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About Me

OK Ive deleted my novel, and in it's place ...the sequel. Maybe not, but I felt it was time to update a little...About me: I'm a single mom, 4 beautiful children. 2 boys and 2 girls. . I spend alot of my time with my kids,I love to read, I'll finish a novel in a day if I have the time. Love being outside, I love to camp, go fishing etc Into country music mainly.... I just cant bring myself to like it! We joke at my house that my kids will learn their inappropriateness at home from me and not some stranger, we are a strange bunch but I wouldnt have it any other way! I work ALOT of hours at the moment, managing a tax office will do that to ya this time of year, that doesnt mean I cant make time for dating just that some planning is needed.Who Im looking for: First and foremost, If you use any kind of drugs or feel the need to have a drink..all the time don't message me. I want a guy that I can actually trust, when you say you'll call at least make an effort, when you say you're gonna do something.. do it. I want someone that down the road when you come into the room my heart still skips a beat. I want a gentleman, someone with manners that still knows how to treat a woman like a lady. ( i know how to treat my guy well too for the record) I want that guy I can stay up all night talking to and even after 4 hours we never run out of things to talk about and it only feels like its been 20 mins on the phone. I want someone that can be my best friend, not just looking for a hookup cause thats not what Im after. someone who can make me want to be a better person. I am updating my pictures here also so that my more recent ones are there, my lack of full body shots is not intentional Im just normally the one taking the pictures so therefore I dont really have any to post everyone is into different things I suppose meeting for coffee ( or something else in my case) or meeting somewhere for lunch is a good option... time to sit and talk to get to know one another before actually going on a real date and spending the money involved in that... lets face it how rotten would it be to make a night of plans and go do something only to find out that there really isn't any real connection.. grabbing coffee or a burger is quick easy and if it doesn't feel right then no worries.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Lawanda from Clinton | Woman | 34 years old | Cancer
    Lawanda

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am a professional gal and take my career (that I love!) seriously but not quite so much my own self. Not sure if I laugh with myself or at myself more? I'm outgoing, a people person for sure, smart (and a smarty pants, as my dad would say), funny, kind of saucy and sarcastic, but have a big heart and really really easy going under all that jazz. I'm up for any adventure though photography is my number one creative passion..then its a toss up between volleyball and jogging (I'm thin but athletic/toned ie. I've still got junk left in the right places), hiking, and drawing, and the welcoming feeling of settling into my cozy couch for a movie, and of course, Guinness. I have my you-know-what together and hope to find someone who does too, finds it important to work on growth and finds joy in a good day of hard work...someone that is also fun/funny and positive to be around and likes to tool around and let loose like me. Basically, I adore witty goofball guys...with ambition and smarts. Trustworthy is a "duh" :)..and I want to admire your decisions. Curious to find a cute date, future relationship (wanna "go steady"? Lol...apparently it is near-;serious" in any sense of the word?? Haha:), or some comfortable companionship, and/or also expand my circle of friendships here in Maui. I do miss having an important man in my life to care for and make laugh (and surprise, love surprises)...and vice versa. The good stuff...My life is rather busy so I don't plan to overwhelm anyone, and I'm not the constricting clingy type but I'm also not into being, or feeling like, one-of-twenty by yet another guy (sorry!) that is overprotective of his Maui "single-dom". Respect (and responsive communication) is important (and sexy!)."No pets" just means I don't have any right now. Pets help make the world go round...so does red wine and dark beer!Just a small FYI, profile pics of just your sculpted chest taken in the bathroom mirror that cut out your face kind of just creep me out. Though charm can overcome height, I cant help but be attracted to men that are a bit taller than me, and it's important to care about ones physical fitness/health (yeah, charm does not overcome this so well, gotta take care yourself!), and who doesn't like someone that's just darn cute (in my way of thinking someone is cute, which might not be the norm). Yeah...a job and car are basics, a full grill, and a prominent sense of humor and understanding. No heavy drugs, please. And, I hope you like kids because mine are seriously amazing. I get to kick it with them ***nights a week.If I judge a man other than by what I learn directly, it's from the level of respect they have of their friends, and if that's all good it goes a long way. Alrighty then. Have a great day and best wishes. Cheers! I can have fun in most any environment (preferably not your ex's backyard though). In regards to good old fashioned gentlemanly date etiquette...while I am able to take care of my own (and more) by means of doors and tabs and such...chivalry is NEVER not hot and goes a looooong way :)... so don't worry that I'll be all women's-equal-rights offended or anything by you being a gentleman in Maui. I am a lady and assume that's why you have asked me out for a fun time? Don't be shy :)

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  • Bernice from Clinton | Woman | 34 years old | Sagittarius
    Bernice

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am an upbeat and happy person. Your typical glass is half full type gal. If you dont see me smiling, I've had a bad day. But I love to be cheered up. Just make me laugh.Born and raised in Ascension Parish and now have a home of my own here for myself and my 9 year old son. He is the light in my life. Always upbeat and a jokster like his mom. I am happy to get up in the morning because of the people I work with and the fact that I have found something that I dont mind doing for the rest of my work life.I would love to find someone who also likes to get a little dirty sometimes. I am all for camping, hiking, or anything of the like. Deep Sea Fishing anyone?I would like to find someone who has a wonderful relationship with their family, as I do. We enjoy getting together for birthdays and holidays. Sometimes even getting together for dinner or drinks with my siblings is great too.I also enjoy getting out with my coworkers and friends. I love getting out there and meeting new people and trying new things. Does this sound like you?I would like to take it slow and see where things lead. Whatever feels right.

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  • Ruthie from Clinton | Woman | 34 years old | Cancer
    Ruthie

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Im not still not sure about this but I'll give it a try... First and most importantly I am a single mother of 2 boys who are my whole world and will always come first in my life so if you dont like the idea of a package deal, move on. My kids are around about 80% of the time.So now that that's out in the open, here it goes... I work full time, so between that and my kids its not easy to go out and meet people. And where would I go anyway? I like going out for a drink once and a while but I dont expect to meet Mr. Right in the bar down the street. And most of my friends are settled down too so even if I did want to find you in a bar I wouldn't go in by myself anyway! :)In my spare time I like to do all kinds of things. I could go on and on about me and what I like to do but we need stuff to talk about if I haven't bored you away yet! Sorry, I dont think Im very good at this.Im not high maintenance, not into drama, and not looking for a sugar daddy. I work and pay my own bills. I want to meet someone who is fun and family oriented. If you have kids too, great! But you have to at least accept that mine will be around. (Probably not on the first few dates though! Lol) I like to be outside, but wouldn't say no to chilling on the couch with some ice cream and a movie. Or The Walking Dead. Its almost the season premier!!! So hopefully I haven't scared you away and you think Im cute, send me a line. You never know... Somewhere fun like a carnival or outdoor concert. Dinner is a nice first date but come on guys. Lets shake things up a bit!!!

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