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Bessie, 33

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About Me

A few of my friends have really lucked out from dating sites, so figured I'd give it a shot. I am ready, eager and excited to start dating again, and hope to find an attractive, funny, hardworking man to be a part of my life. Confidence is a must, but co- cki-ness is a bust. I'm a huge fan of palm trees and wearing sundress in December. I am still a die hard Bills fan, and like to visit back home at least once a year. Some things about me: I love fancy restaurants. I hate bugs. I enjoy meaningful conversations. I love to clean (borderline neat freak). I hate roller coasters. I am not afraid to go after what I want. I spend too much money at Starbucks. I love sporting events. I love the water and beach. I have a sweet tooth. I HATE cigarette smoke. I believe everyone should have a bucket list. I believe in the power of a vision board. I am a Christian. I enjoy going out (playing games like darts, corn hole, photo hunt), but also love to cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie. I cherish my friends and family with every ounce of my being. I am very low maintenance. Oprah is one of my idols. I wish I understood politics better. I like reality TV. I love to travel. I have always been attracted to the bad boy, but am looking for something different this time around. I am ready to find the one, and hope that God makes this miracle happen. lolIf you have similar interests, then send me a message + let's chat. I would like to *** times in the beginning, but then meet soon after. I find face to face interaction much easier and more enjoyable. Thanks for reading my profile and good luck! something simple, like meeting out for drink. If there is chemistry and good conversation, then we can put some deeper thought into the 2nd meetup.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elisabeth

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I'm outgoing, personable, educated, loyal and spontaneous. I look for these similar qualities in a partner. Although I have a photo of me in a cowgirl hat, I'm actually a city girl at heart. I enjoy my career in sales and want to always be challenged not only in my career but in my personal life as well. My goal is to remain happy in life. We only have this one shot so each day I try to make the best of it and live life to the fullest. Something fun and casual where we could talk and get to know each other.

  • Linda

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I'm an easy going, kind, talkative, honest, and caring kinda person. I'm a hopeless romantic, that being said I wouldn't say I have this image of someone sweeping me away...however that would be nice ;) (joke ppl) I love anything that relates to the ocean. I'm from an island so I think it's born into me to want to be near it.I love most music...not a big rap fan...I'm also pretty into the usual thing, such as going to movies, cooking, spending time w/ friends, family, and my pets.I am VERY happy doing what I do. Work is challenging but rewarding and even on the days that are hell... I love what I do.I'm looking for someone who is intelligent that can carry on a stimulating conversation. Thats not to say it always has to be serious, or intelligent because I think it's an important to laugh at everything you can...starting with yourself. ;) I laugh at myself on a regular basis :)Anyways if your a nice, honest, smart, handsome guy that knows what he wants and where he's going...I'd love to chat.What I'm looking for in a man...Compassion, goals, perfect imperfection ; Someone who isn't intimidated by my successes because they feel they have their own. Someone who wants a family someday. Someone who isn't playing the game, who is genuine, and means what they say. Someone that can communicate effectively... (not at easy as it sounds, just because you know how to use your words... Doesn't mean you know how to really use your words correctly) someone who knows I'm not perfect, I never will be, but that sees that I see that and enjoys it as that is the point to life... If you think you know it all you might as well be dead.I'm ok with kids, I actually love them, but I want my own someday so as long as its not a closed chapter we are cool!My flaws...Well... I talk too much... And I communicate on overdrive. I don't lie well and I want someone who wants the truth (tactfully handed to them)I don't have a big family and I don't see mine much :( this is something I wish we're different... I put too many ... :/ :) in all my messages... See.I have a bunch of pets... Vet tech and all so I have a "few" rescues in my home... My home is beautiful and clean though and I am def at Max capacity aka I'm not going to go get more pets. Not that you can't have your own pet... Cross that bridge if we come to it.I'm picky when it comes to a partner... I have self worthWhat I'm not looking for... Prob should have put this up front! Not looking to just get laid! Let's be clear here guys, I'm a woman and women can always just get laid... It's simple but it's sad and boring... I want someone who won't try to jump into the sac with me right away... Someone that if I slept with them quickly would be turned off... Yup cause lets be honest ur not gonna be like "hey mom! Oh yeah she's a keeper!" if we hook up fast... Plus we wouldn't know eachother and sex usually isn't as good (at least for most women) when you don't have a connection... Just being honest.I want you to have your own place and be an adult... I know! Crazy overly demanding women these days! Psh! No wonder I'm single! LolIf your full of yourself... Move on.If you don't like animals... Move on.If you don't want to find your best friend/ partner in crime (not real crime... Sadly I have to clarify) move on.If your profile says "don't be a fatty" ... Ur an ***hole, move on. ( side bar I'm not a fatty, but I'm not a twig... And yes ur still an ass)If your profile says "I want to go on vacation who wants to come?" ... Ur an idiot who is setting himself up for being used... Re-evaluate and also... Move on.I in no way am making fun of the above said people... They are free to do whatever they like, beautiful... I just don't want in.. Or the BS attached to it.I'm not trying to be a *** And I'm actually not even close to one.. But I am trying to be clear.. I've been single for a long time and am happy with my life and myself... I don't wish to be down on anyone else, I just don't wish to bother with it. I'm a soft heart and I do care about people's feelings... I've tried both ways of saying no thank you on this site and it never works... So if I do t answer, please don't take it personally and I will do the same :) somewhere to talk :)

  • Meghan

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Hi!.I have a very professional job in the financial services industry, but, don't let my job fool you... I definitely like to let loose outside of work and am looking for some cool people to hang out with, get to know better, maybe show this new- I enjoy pretty much anything from dinner, drinks and dancing, to sporting events, long drives, concerts, hiking, the beach, or sitting around and chatting under the stars (corny, i know).. I can be a little sarcastic at times(I am a M***hole), I'm definitely goofy and enjoy silliness! I am a highly optimistic and positive thinking girl and truly believe life is what you make of it.. I enjoy a wide range of music, totally depending on my mood, and feel like Spotify was the best invention for someone like me... a Gemini who can't make up her mind ;-) I also really enjoy playing games... not mind games, but card games and board games! It may sound boring, but after a long day at work, I enjoy a mind-numbing game of Skip-Bo! One last random fact... I LOVE sandwiches. Give me a monte cristo or a French dip and this girl is in heaven!I'm super excited for the change of scenery, and weather, and really want to take up a lot of the outdoor activities in this area! I'm open to almost anything, but would love to try snorkeling/diving, paddle-boarding, surfing, and of course... fishing for REAL fish! I also have this crazy image in my head of roller skating down A1A with rainbows and stars shooting out of my wheels, like that old Coke commercial!To be totally upfront, I'm not on here necessarily LOOKING for anything super serious, but if it happens, then it happens.. Can't interfere with fate ;-) I am definitely NOT here just looking for hookups tho.. I prefer to be a one-man kinda gal, and like my men that way too (Well, one-woman, not one-man ;***... I guess what I am saying is, I'm not on here just trying to scope out a hottie to put a ring on it, or a sugar-daddy to take care of me, or someone to spend every minute of every day with and move in with in 6 months..... I am an intelligent, hardworking, positive/optimist, laid back, down to earth, independent, classy lady(when necessary) who is looking, ideally, for someone to compliment her and be her partner in crime.. Someone who doesn't take life too seriously, except for the important parts, and is responsible and successful, intelligent, fun and would be my equal, and definitely someone who doesn't bring drama to the table... Also someone who is not looking for a Barbie doll or "perfect" body.. I love myself and you must too.. I am not thin but not fat either, I equate myself to Joan on Mad Men ;-)Also.. grammar, general intelligence and teeth are important.. I can accept almost any flaw, but poor grammar (meaning people who don't know the difference between their/there/they're, to/too/two, are/our etc..), a complete moron, or poor teeth are not something I think I could easily live with (sorry.. just being honest!) I am basically looking to start my new life in this awesome place and meet some cool new people in the process, maybe find a special person to share it with, and see what this crazy little thing called life has in store for me next :-) Sorry this is so long... if you made it this far then you probably kinda sorta liked (or hated) what you were reading, so you should message me and say hello! Casual but fun! Something that would allow us to actually talk and get to know more about eachother... Definitely will HAVE to meet out.. I am not trying to give strangers my address or go to their houses!

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