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Shana, 32

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About Me

Hi there!Well I decided to re-write my profile.... I think being direct and to the point is how I am normally in life so why sugar coat my write up. I have learned from being on and off this site that I don't understand the dating world now a days. I spent over the last decade in two long term relationships. I know what love is. I know how I should treat someone and how I want to be treated. I know what morals, respect, and values are and I actually live by them. When I say something, I mean it. Now that I've chosen to experience this dating world I have realized a lot of people have lost that. I was raised my amazing parents who have always been there for me. I realized after growing up what it took for them to stay together, work through the good and the bad, and still end up loving each other after 40 years of marriage. I know in my heart that if a man can provide me with the love and respect they have for each other than I will be one happy woman!I have worked hard to secure my life. I have a career, a side business, a beautiful home. I try to keep pretty active and I`m looking for someone with a similar mindset; I do crossfit 3 times a week, running 3 times a week, and I can easily be suckered into anything that has to do with water! I love the summer heat and anything to do with being outside. However winter and I are not friends lol... But come any weekend it's R&R or random adventures. I'm looking for someone that knows who they are and what they want in life. I'm very confident in myself and would want that in my partner. I know that I want a family. That is very important to me. If you are not interested in children please don't bother messaging me. And I apologize to any single dad's but I'm not looking to become involved with someone that already has children. I have already done that and I am not willing to put myself through that heart break again. If you haven't gathered already I'm not shy to speak my mind. I'm not your typical female either. I hate drama. I'm not going to lie to you. I'll tell you the truth whether or not it will hurt your feelings. And I'm not here to hook up. I'm too old for games and I have no time for them! I'm looking for someone to compliment my life, not complicate it.My best friend, who is a guy btw, has warned me that I may scare off men by being so direct. I'm taking the chance of laying it all out there in hopes that I weed out anyone that is not on the same page as me. I'm not here to waste your time or mine. I have true intentions and I'm hoping you do too. If you're still reading and I have caught your attention then I would be interested in hearing from you. :-) The options can be endless.... let's just meet, see if we click first and go from there!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gwendolyn

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Hi, Okay, here I go again... Changing my profile around in hopes I find genuine chemistry. Although I enjoy being single and keep myself busy. I am tired of the dating world and would love to devote my heart to someone. Life has so much to offer, let's conquer it together. I know who I am and what kind of person I click with..... now just to reel him in. I am wanting a relationship but I am in no rush to jump into a commitment. Friends first. I have everything I could ever ask for in my life and more except a sexy man to make memories with. I want a mental, emotional and physical connection with someone who will appreciate and accept me for all that I am. As I am wanting to give someone the same respect and understanding. Is that too much to ask for?! Geesh! Someone who doesn't take much too seriously and can try to laugh through any situation. Besides the obvious trust, honesty and communication. I think all healthy relationships need cpr!! Compromise, passion and respect. I also think affection is extremely important but crap doesn't have quite the same ring too it. Hmmm my life long friends would say... I'm a sincere, loyal, loving, generous, easy going, spontaneous, funny, blunt, procrastinator, who is awful at laundry(gotta be honest), sometimes over the top in a silly way and who apparently likes to go on about herself. Awkward! lol Oh and I can also be awkward when nervous or unsure. I do believe, I'm always there to support anyone in need, with a shoulder, an ear, laugh, a hug... I live to put smiles on faces and warmth in hearts:) Most of all, I am one to always look on the bright side, sometimes to the point of annoyance. lol For those who see the glass half empty anyways hehe! :P umm still have my days;) I am human! I'd like to find a comfortable balance... where I am weak, you are strong kinda idea.... perfaps fiind a gentleman who's good at laundry.Physically I don't really have a "type" I am attracted to men taller than me. I also like a man who takes care of himself and enjoys dressing up for the right occasion. There's a time and place for everything;) Nothing sexier than a confident, thoughtful, open, funny guy in a classic t-... putty in your hands. lol Most of my pictures are a few months old. I will try to get new ones soon. I have been told I look very young for my age. Often strangers think my 12 year old is my brother. lol If you've made it this far, don't be shy! If I didn't intrigue you, I hope at least you were entertained. Wish you all the best!If you're just looking for a piece of a$$... Not interested, thanks! Try the girl below me, I hear she puts out on the first date! lolKatP.S Apparently you can only have so many interests. Lame. ha! meetville cut me off! lol Yes!!! I actually have more :-P And I think I hit the quota for cheesie lines :) Fun, simple, no pressure.

  • Christian

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am at the point in my life that I know exactly what I want. Honesty is the most important thing in a relationship for me. If you are interested in chatting message me. Coffee, pub, dinner??

  • Janice

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    What can I say... I have a very distinctive personality and I enjoy deep authentic communication with people. If you're like me then you’re intelligent, honest, authentic, with some quirks. After some very disappointing dating experiences recently I can honestly say I'm done with the whole concept. "Dating" implies a specific agenda, and creates a reason to be deceptive and hide things from each other since the objective is to impress the other enough that they will want to mate with you. If lucky enough to succeed with this we find ourselves in superficial relationships where both people are going through the actions, pretending everything is great, but there are a dozen elephants in the room because there was never a foundation of honest open communication... and both people continue trying to be who they want to be seen as but not who they really are. What a recipe for misery. I stopped playing that game years ago but its disappointing to find a lot of men still mindlessly engage in it. Your past romantic partners would all say you were exceptionally genuine and caring and treated them well, communicated clearly, and really made an effort to open up and let them know you deeply, and they'd add that you also made a lot of effort to know their deepest thoughts and desires and understand them. People think you're honorable and you have a high moral standard when it comes to all interpersonal relationships.Hopefully you're a free thinker who's cast away the expectations of our society... realizing things like marriage, retirement, traveling, and material items aren't half as fulfilling as everyone pretends they are. You are not walking the path that leads to a white picket fence...If you’re like me you take care of your body and health, you care about the environment and world around you, you seek a few genuine deep friendships rather than a multitude of shallow ones. Your life is stable, you are content and in harmony, and anyone who brings drama into your life is quickly evicted.If u type like caveman then I wont thik ur attractiv. it won't be a date...if you act like its a date (trying to pay for my lunch etc) I'll terminate the occasion without regret.

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