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Janice, 35
United States, Iowa, Burlington

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About Me

What can I say... I have a very distinctive personality and I enjoy deep authentic communication with people. If you're like me then you’re intelligent, honest, authentic, with some quirks. After some very disappointing dating experiences recently I can honestly say I'm done with the whole concept. "Dating" implies a specific agenda, and creates a reason to be deceptive and hide things from each other since the objective is to impress the other enough that they will want to mate with you. If lucky enough to succeed with this we find ourselves in superficial relationships where both people are going through the actions, pretending everything is great, but there are a dozen elephants in the room because there was never a foundation of honest open communication... and both people continue trying to be who they want to be seen as but not who they really are. What a recipe for misery. I stopped playing that game years ago but its disappointing to find a lot of men still mindlessly engage in it. Your past romantic partners would all say you were exceptionally genuine and caring and treated them well, communicated clearly, and really made an effort to open up and let them know you deeply, and they'd add that you also made a lot of effort to know their deepest thoughts and desires and understand them. People think you're honorable and you have a high moral standard when it comes to all interpersonal relationships.Hopefully you're a free thinker who's cast away the expectations of our society... realizing things like marriage, retirement, traveling, and material items aren't half as fulfilling as everyone pretends they are. You are not walking the path that leads to a white picket fence...If you’re like me you take care of your body and health, you care about the environment and world around you, you seek a few genuine deep friendships rather than a multitude of shallow ones. Your life is stable, you are content and in harmony, and anyone who brings drama into your life is quickly evicted.If u type like caveman then I wont thik ur attractiv. it won't be a date...if you act like its a date (trying to pay for my lunch etc) I'll terminate the occasion without regret.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Disco Chinese German Action Horror Watching Sports
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Hi there!Well here I am again after a bit of a hiatus. I have a few friends who have met their partners on here so I'm willing to give it another go!So a bit about me: I'm a small town girl who hasn't let the city affect me...I'm still a sweet and fun girl who feels just as comfortable in jeans as I do in heels. I'm very down to earth, outgoing, funny, and I know what I want out of life. I like to think I'm a great balance between city and small town, and I'm looking for the same in a man :)Everyone has their 'must-haves' so here are mine. I'm looking for someone who is funny, kind, active, thoughtful, affectionate, attractive and smart. Someone who thinks outside their own little world and is willing to explore the city with me and do fun and different things! **I do tend to date taller guys (6ft or so and up) only because I'm tall and even more so in heels :)**Physical attraction is obviously important and for me personally I'd like my partner to be active and in generally good shape. That being said, while I do enjoy keeping in shape I don't make it my life. If all you can talk about is your best grind time I don't think we'll have much in common :) Life is all about balance!Ultimately I want a man who knows what he wants in life and love, and isn't afraid to go after it while having lots of fun along the way! Happy searching! xoxoP.S. If I don't reply to your message it just means I read your profile and I don't think we'd be a good fit :) The cliched coffee or drink but with the option for more. I don't think you can get a sense for someone from spending half an hour with them. That being said if there is just no chemistry or attraction it gives the opportunity for both to exit gracefully :)

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

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