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Janice, 35
United States, Iowa, Burlington

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About Me

What can I say... I have a very distinctive personality and I enjoy deep authentic communication with people. If you're like me then you’re intelligent, honest, authentic, with some quirks. After some very disappointing dating experiences recently I can honestly say I'm done with the whole concept. "Dating" implies a specific agenda, and creates a reason to be deceptive and hide things from each other since the objective is to impress the other enough that they will want to mate with you. If lucky enough to succeed with this we find ourselves in superficial relationships where both people are going through the actions, pretending everything is great, but there are a dozen elephants in the room because there was never a foundation of honest open communication... and both people continue trying to be who they want to be seen as but not who they really are. What a recipe for misery. I stopped playing that game years ago but its disappointing to find a lot of men still mindlessly engage in it. Your past romantic partners would all say you were exceptionally genuine and caring and treated them well, communicated clearly, and really made an effort to open up and let them know you deeply, and they'd add that you also made a lot of effort to know their deepest thoughts and desires and understand them. People think you're honorable and you have a high moral standard when it comes to all interpersonal relationships.Hopefully you're a free thinker who's cast away the expectations of our society... realizing things like marriage, retirement, traveling, and material items aren't half as fulfilling as everyone pretends they are. You are not walking the path that leads to a white picket fence...If you’re like me you take care of your body and health, you care about the environment and world around you, you seek a few genuine deep friendships rather than a multitude of shallow ones. Your life is stable, you are content and in harmony, and anyone who brings drama into your life is quickly evicted.If u type like caveman then I wont thik ur attractiv. it won't be a date...if you act like its a date (trying to pay for my lunch etc) I'll terminate the occasion without regret.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Disco Chinese German Action Horror Watching Sports
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