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Wilda, 31
United States, Iowa, Burlington

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About Me

So many times a profile starts with "where should i begin? Oh i know! The beginning!" I am not a fan of living in the past and would much prefer to focus on my future. Which could involve you! So pay attention ; But then we learned to share... So the only accent I have is when I accidently hold my shift key down and my computer starts writing in French :S I love talking history and learning about Britian and learning all I can about the country that I come from as it really is very fascinating. And better than most soap operas today! And a girl needs her drama, even if it is vicariously! When I was younger I grew up wanting to be a firetruck. I was amused by the lights and sirens and wanted to be just as cool. Then I saw my first TV commercial and it was for the DeVry *** a gigantic lightbulb and I had to go there and become a lightbulb! My parents always taught me to have a backup plan so, in realizing how crazy my ambitions were, I ended up with a degree at the U of A in psychology. I love my education, I love applying it and I love learning more about it. I am a single mom who is looking forward to sharing my independance with someone. I love my son and he will always come first, no matter what activity or project or hug or cuddle he needs. But as he's getting older it's time to focus a little more on me! I'm not clingy, i'm passionate. I'm not dramatic, I'm outgoing. I'm not demanding, i'm feisty. I'm not shallow, i'm confident. And I really love the thesaurus I got for Christmas ;) My son is turning 10 and he has a father in his life. I'm looking for someone for me. Someone who can keep up and slow me down. Someone who doesn't mind that I can't drop my life at any given moment but will give you my world when I can. I am fiercely loyal and love committment but don't mind casually working my way to that path. I am an intense football fan. I am passionate while watching and very much into the games. So please check your embarrassment and shame at the front gate if you come with me ;) If you're not passionate about sports and/or a team, you're missin' out! If you need me, you can find me dancing along the sidelines at my son's games, unapologetically being one of those "football moms," which is getting better as my son has informed me that now that i play the game, I may occasionally be "right" when yelling from the sidelines! I read. A lot. You can always find me curled up in front of my fireplace or stretched out on my patio, lost in the world of literature. Fiction, non-fiction, i'm a fan of it all. Inspire me to find a new author or subject to get lost in...I dare you! anything that would allow us to talk!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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