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Erma, 34

United States, Iowa, Burlington

Offline, last seen Tue, 11 Aug 2026 14:17:51

About Me

You know I just want one guy who isn't like all the others. Maybe that comes across harsh but the reality of it is I really only want to spend my life with one person, which rules a lot of you out.I don't have some dramatic list a guy needs to check off but it would be great if he kinda has his life together. I have a good life, great friends, family and work. I'm also kind of an over achiever so I need someone who matches me in lust for life. I think every experience we have is an opportunity to learn something....to feel something. To grow as people. I will never regret something I've done, ill only regret what i haven't done. I just read on someone else's profile that we have a 1 in 3.3 billion chance of meeting our soulmate. So for the other ***others please be wise and if it doesn't work remember that it's ok cause the odds are stacked against you and when you find that one person...the one that changes life as you know it. You'll know it. And she won't just have a pretty face, she'll be everything you ever wanted. I wish you all happiness and every opportunity to meet that 1 person, cause at the end of the day that's the only one I want too ;)Life is short, break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, laugh uncontrollably and never regret something that made you smile!Dance as if no one is watching, sing as if no one were listening, love as if you've never been hurt, live everyday as if it were your lastHappy fishing ;)P.S. I get asked a LOT! Why am I single.....here's my answer.If you ask the guys I meet and don't hit it off with, they'll tell you I'm too picky. If you ask my ex boyfriends, they'll tell you that I shouldn't be and they know what they lost. What I say, that there is only 1 of you and I haven't met you yet. ;) We can work that out.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Metal Irish Japanese Korean Portuguese
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