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Esther, 34
United States, Connecticut, West Haven

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About Me

I'm fairly new to this. In the past, I have identified as straight/hetero, although I have always been attracted to women for most of my life. I have probably been attracted to women for WAY longer than I was attracted to the male gender, but I just naturally did what society expected of me cuz that was the "norm." However, the older I get, the more I want to be true to MYSELF and do what makes ME happy, regardless of what others, including loved ones and family, may think. I would "label" myself as bi- or Omni-sexual, in that I'm not "attracted" to a person based on their gender. I'm a pretty intellectual person in a lot of ways (quite contrary to my artsy ways), but that's just how I am. For me, attraction is WAY more than physical attributes, it's about how well I get on with a person in all these other facets. That takes time, unfortunately, and in a fast-paced society, everyone wants "fast relationships." I never was one for that sort of thing, even when I was exclusively dating the male gender.Primarily, I'm just looking for like-minded individuals to meet, get to know, and to take it from there. Who knows what could happen? Maybe nothing will happen, but at least now I'm being true to myself and admitting it to myself. Nothing fancy, just very casual, like going out for coffee or something like that. I'm really not hard to please. When the weather is nice, I LOVE to be outdoors, like at a park or something.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Play Musical Instrument American Canadian Mexican Comedy Western American Football Rodeo
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