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Allison, 35
United States, Connecticut, West Haven

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About Me

looking for someone honest and real to spend my time with. What is honest and real? I'm glad you asked. To me that means that you will be yourself and allow me to get to know and appreciate all of the little things that make you "you". It means that you are honest with yourself and with me about what you are looking for in a partner. There is no need to waste your time or mine. If you are not ready for a relationship, I'm the wrong girl for you. I wish you the best of luck. If your heart still belongs to someone else, I'm the wrong girl for you. What I want:Honesty.Loyalty.Someone who I can laugh with.Someone who will hold my hand and kiss me anytime or anywhere that the moment strikes.What I give:Love that is unconditional. That means you get the whole package. Someone to answer the phone at 2am when you need it. someone that will not forget your b-day, someone that will make sure you know you are special and loved.Faithfulness. An open mind that will listen to you, argue with you, encourage your dreams, and challenge you.A partner in crime.Who I am:I can appreciate the little things in life- and there is nothing that would make me happy that money can buy.I'm still a big kid at heart, I will do all kinds of crazy things that will make you laugh and that will make great memories.I am the girl who wants to dress up, throw parties for no reason other than to be around the people I love, read bedtime stories, and fall asleep to the sound of your voice. I am the girl who values her family and her loved ones more than anything.I spoil the people I love.Money and material things do not impress me. I want to start and end my day with you. I love to read and watch movies, I love to go out and enjoy all that the city (and the country) have to offer. I find the ocean to be enchanting.I love to swim and be in the water.Fall is my favorite season.I am still going to school, I think there will always be something else that I want to learn about.I believe in chasing dreams no matter how long it takes.I work hard and I play harder. I am blessed with a wonderful circle of friends.I am a very affectionate person.If you think you want to get to know me send me a message. I would love to hear from you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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