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Carissa, 32
United States, Connecticut, West Haven

Offline, last seen Thu, 04 Jun 2026 13:47:30

About Me

I’m trying online dating again after taking some time off. I finally have time in my life now for a relationship, and I’d really like to share the awesome activities in which I participate with a significant other. I really love my career, and work is important to me. I work hard because I enjoy it, but I also like to go out and have fun (or stay in and do the same).I am the type of person who likes to keep moving. My number one hobby is volleyball; I like to play whenever I can find the time & place. I coached volleyball in the past (when I was a teacher) and now I get to dedicate my time to playing the game I love. I just joined an Ultimate Frisbee team this summer, and I thoroughly enjoy the competition that provides. Running is also a passion of mine; I’ve completed 2 half marathons, 2 full marathons, 1 Ragnar Relay, and I am signed up to complete Tough Mudder this September. Even though I like sports and staying busy, I have come to learn that there is a time and a place for taking it easy, and I appreciate those moments. I am blunt, (no need to read my mind, I'll tell you what's on it most of the time), occasionally sarcastic (okay, almost always sarcastic), enjoy life to its fullest, hate drama, and I love my family and my faith; if you have similar qualities, then let's talk.Some of the most important aspects for which I am looking for in a significant other: someone who takes care of themselves inside and out, someone who knows how to cook and can experiment with me in the kitchen, someone who enjoys their career but also knows how to leave their work at work, and someone willing to communicate and compromise in a relationship. Also, it would be nice if that person loves to laugh (and doesn’t take themselves too seriously) and has their own aspirations. Lastly, if you’re interested, let me know that you’ve taken the time to read at least some of this information that I took the time to write. I like the first date (and all the rest) to be fun- usually a "spontaneous" type of activity. I was into indoor wall/rock climbing (and would love to get back into it), and I did that once as a second date. I do not like the typical "dinner and a movie" type of date, because I am not a conventional type of person. Anything unusual (but not scary-unusual) is ideal- playing volleyball, rollerblading, cliff-diving...get the picture? :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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