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Pauline, 32
United States, Connecticut, West Haven

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About Me

I am tired of talking about myself. That is hard to do.Online dating is like rhino hunting in NH. Really. If you have done this for any amount of time , you know exactly what I am talking about. I have met some tremendous people. Had a lovely relationship, met new friends...but I will warn you, I am picky. With good reason.I love my life and would rather stay single then to date just to date. I like my job, managing software and I love my family and social life. Things have worked out in amazing ways in the past few years. I have a big family and love to spend time with them. I also have wonderful friends. But would like to build something with someone.I have traveled, both because I was raised in a military family and because I traveled on my own. New people and new places don't intimidate me. In college, while living in Europe, my girlfriends put me in charge of the train schedule and making sure that we got to where we needed to be. I love doing things like that.I am a people person. I love understanding others and hearing their stories. I love old people. I love young people. I hate pretentious people and people who do not take charge of their lives. Ok, not hate. Hate is a strong word. Dislike. Intensely. Looking for someone older 30s or 40s. NOT interested in young guys. It is much too tedious. Someone intelligent. A man who has kids is preferred. Someone who goes and gets what he wants. I can't do small talk with strangers. Either you want to meet or you don't.I am a take charge kind of person, however, I will not make the first move. And this doesn't mean that I want a 'weaker' man to balance me out. I want someone who will meet me on my playing field.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

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