SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Cathy
Online
Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
In my book, big words are better. I find it entertaining to play Devil\'s Advocate and see if you can prove your argument in a discussion. Look for smart successful and of course loving partner.
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Shelby
Online
Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
Ok so here we go again. I am a single mom of a 5-year-old boy who is with me full time. I love sports, music (symphonic metal, hard rock, Celtic rock, and Irish, among many other genres), reading, history (World War II in particular), and anything competitive (pool, horseshoes, shuffleboard, beer pong, whatever). From spring to fall I play a lot of softball. I enjoy most sports and am a big fan of the Razorbacks, Braves, Saints, Thunder, and Bruins (hockey). I like going out for karaoke, and yes, I'm relatively decent at it! I'm not always a happy person, but I like to laugh and smile, even if it's just sarcastically. I have a very smart-ass sense of humor that can come across as abrasive. I'm not beautiful or perfect, but I always try my best to be as close to both as possible. I tend to be defensive, but I suppose 32 years of rejection and disappointment has built up my wall. I've almost gotten to the point where I'm afraid to like anyone because I don't want to go through any of those feelings again. But the right person can/would/should help me break through that.I'm a little old fashioned and shy. I can come across as rather intense, but I believe anything worth having is worth working for and anything worth doing is worth doing right, so I try to give my best and my all in everything I do. I prefer for the man to make the first move (i.e., initiate conversation, ask me out first, etc.), and I expect him to be a gentleman (i.e., opening doors, using manners, etc.) The main reason for that is, as a single mom, I try really hard to teach my son to be a gentleman, and I would like him to have someone he can look up to for examples and proof of how a man should truly treat a woman.Everyone always asks what I'm looking for, so I'll just lay it out there. I am looking for happiness. Someone who adores me as much as I adore him. Someone who makes me smile because he loves to see me smile, and calls or texts or whatever because he wants to, not out of a sense of obligation. Someone who loves my child as he would his own and appreciates/respects my parenting. (By the way, I want to physically have more kids. That's non-negotiable. I expect your kids to treat me with respect and behave as I expect my own child to.) Someone I can talk to and not run out of things to say. Someone who can be apart from me but doesn't necessarily like it. Someone who can take care of me and protect me, not because I need it, but because he enjoys it. Because everything I get, I give in return. Someone I can trust, respect, and be proud of. And basically, that's it. I just want to be happy. Thanks for reading all this (probably all none of you!). And just for the record, I don't like dating. It's expensive and stressful, and honestly, I think it's just a shallow excuse people use when they don't want to commit. They say, oh I'm just dating around. Well, not me. I'm not saying one date and I jump into marriage. If I think I'll like someone, I'll go on a date with him. If I don't like him, I won't see him again. If I do like him, I will see only him. I like to devote my time and attention to one person, and I appreciate the same in return. Must be able to communicate often and effectively. And at least give me a chance. But please don't tell me you're a nice guy and not like other men. Every guy tries to tell me that, then he turns out to be just like every other jerk I've ever met. Prove it to me *** what you mean, and do what you say. A nice dinner and drinks. Unless you can think of something more interesting, in which case I am happy to consider.
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Tami
Online
Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 32-42
I am a very laid back, adventurous person. I have a great sense of humor, I am independent, but on the same note would like to find someone I can spend quality time with and still have some independence from one another. I have a passion for music, cooking, friends, family, and my work. I am a single mom of a 14 year old daughter. She is my best friend. We are a packaged deal, but I do keep her away from dating I do until I know where it's going. I am very spontaneous, but sometimes I have to put that aside. Weekends are more of my spontaneous days. I am looking for someone who is not into games, knows what they want out of life, who is as passionate as I am. You must have a great sense of humor, enjoy the outdoors, and trying new adventures. I love to travel, and hope to fullfill that passion soon. Now for my pet peeve lol...if we have been talking on here and decide to start texting, don't ask me for a picture right away. The picks on here are 100% me. I hate taking pictures so your lucky you are seeing those lol. And yes because I am always asked this..I have meat on my bones, I have curves were they need to be, I am all natural, and I have been working hard to get healthy. So if you like to workout that would be a plus. If you want a skinny women, move on to the next girl please. For the first date I would enjoy going somewhere where we can both talk and get to know each other. Something outdoors, and very interactive. If someone would say dinner and a movie, I would probably pass on the date. The more creative the date, the more you will have my interest.