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Patsy, 33
United States, Connecticut, Wallingford

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About Me

I'm quirky, silly, blunt, and broken. My days are sometimes too dark, and my nights sometimes too long. I often trip over my own insecurities. I require attention, long for passion, and wish to be desired. I use music to speak when words fail me, even though words are important to me as the air I breathe. I love hard and with all that I have... and even with my faults, I am worth loving!I am a single mother of two beautiful/handsome children. My son turns 10 in June and my daughter will be a year old on March. I am a FULL time mother with my baby girl. She is with me 100% of the time. So if children are not your "thing", then it is best you not contact me. My children are the MOST important things in my life and they will always be put FIRST above anyone. :) I am a super friendly person and I am good at making others laugh. IF YOU ARE JUST PASSING THROUGH MY AREA FOR WORK, PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME FOR SOMEONE TO HANG OUT WITH FOR YOUR TIME HERE. IT'S A WASTE OF MY TIME. Things that I do NOT like:*People who brag about how much money they make, and are arrogant and self centered.*SLOPPY KISSERS/ BAD BREATH! If you are unsure of your breath, PLEASE chew gum or eat a mint. No one wants to smell funky breath.*Public affection on a first date. I want to get toKnow someone better before I get to this step. *Kids that do not mind their parents or other adults and those that are disrespectful. First dates really depend on the person. A nice dinner where we can have a great conversation. And then, go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bianca from Wallingford | Woman | 33 years old | Aries
    Bianca

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Don't have your first ? Be "any luck on here?" Bc the obvious answer is no. Since I'd be on here with a bf???? No. I am a mom to a little boy. Sometimes I really think I should be single forever.....but something is telling me otherwise. And internet dating??? Its too creepy. I think the only reason I'm on here is because I'm terribly bored. so dating me??........Lets not even go there. Lets just be friends for now.... *Real quick about pushing the BLOCK button as well. Just hang out. maybe movie or dinner.

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  • Stella from Wallingford | Woman | 32 years old | Sagittarius
    Stella

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    NEVER allow your self to fall for someone's unless they are willing to catch you. This is who I am : I am 32, single,never married, no kids, I am a bibliophile,meaning a person who collects or has a great love of books.Im not one for games or sex or looking for either if that's what your after you might want to look elswhere .I prefer being friends first & if thats a problem sorry. I do have a phobia of being in public places (agoraphobia) I know that right there will scare someof ya away but better to weed ya out now then you talk to me and then run in the other direction after chatting with me. plain and simple. So that being said. You know a lit bit more about me. If you read further cool if not eh... Its all good I'm not here to be perfect, but because I strive for it and people in general have a way of making me feel like I need to be just to be acknowledged its really not worth it, I try hard not to allow my past affect my future all. Please don't underestimate me in general, respect me and ill respect you. If you choose to read further good if not that's fine too. 1st AND FORMOST: My family & friends are one in the same & mean EVERYTHING to me. My mom is my biggest inspiration & hero. I don't know what I would do without her.2nd : Just because I am quiet, doesn't always mean I don't have anything to say.I'm unpredictable & spontaneous,I'm curious about everything, I enjoy being with friends but sometimes I prefer to be alone. I envy people who can fit in so easily without trying. I am opinionated,hard headed,loyal,sincere & caring.I choose to see what others don't or won't.I tend to feel guilty when the others is try to get their way.I am a talker,but I am also a good listener.,I may argue,but I will always admit when I am wrong, if I am wrong.I am not perfect, but everyone has a weakness. That just happens to be mine, a weakness that usually doesn't stop me from trying to be or obsessing over being a perfectionist, even when I know its impossible. I AM MY OWN WORST ENEMY. there is so much more behind my smile than any one knows.I am confident & scared,terrified & excited,loving,& thoughtful, hopeful & sick, tired & shy and friendly,I am careful &careless.I am & have been broken and whole,misunderstood,misguided,& mislead,hardworking & determined,but Im a little scared on the inside.I tend to wish on many stars & dream dreams, I pray to God & cry my tears, I will always smile on the outside while I'm dying on the inside,I listen to others even when they won't listen to me.I walk on egg shells daily,& I walk on fire nearly as much.I believe in passion & true love.but sometimes i wonder if either of them exist.,I am everything & nothing all at once. but for ONCE all I want is for someone to love me for me, flaws and all. I am just as selfish,& impatient,& insecure about myself as Marilyn was.But I also admit that I have faults just like everyone else,I can get out of control & at times I can be hard to handle.But if you can't handle me at my worst,You probably don't or won't deserve me at my best.I believe that everything happens for a reason.I believe lies so that I will eventually learn to trust no one but myself, I am me and that's all I can be,nothing more nothing less & I sure as hell don't have time for any second guessing. No preferance but something we both can be comfortable with.

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  • Lou from Wallingford | Woman | 35 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Hi there! Dating with kids is so very hard but unless we want to be alone forever we have to. So with that being said I am a very family oriented woman and my kids come first as they live with me full time. I have 2 girls and 2 boys. I support myself and am not looking for someone to take care of me nor am I looking to support anyone elseI believe in treating people as you want to be treated. I don't have time for games or drama. . There are alot of girls on here that will sleep with you but I am not her so keep looking. I love the outdoors and am very easy to please. I like riding 4 wheelers,fishing etc but have found a classy girly way to do everything. Lol I love my purple muck boots but can rock a heel as well! Update ***I have new recent pics but it wont let me update them. I am a blonde now. If u are not a christian man please don't waste my time. I love the Lord and want someone that feels the same. I am waiting on the Lord to send me a Godly man to lead me. I am old fashioned and I want a friend first. Coffee and good conversation.

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