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If you are normal continue reading! This may be long for a profile, but I'd rather you have it in black & white. Men like that right......no grey area? What am I looking for? I'm looking for a dating relationship first with the possibility of a long term relationship. If all works out maybe we are meant for each other. The end result I hope will begin in marriage our slice of "happy ever after". (Kids, pets, house, grow old) I have never been married. Why? Quite frankly I just haven't met the guy I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I am not willing to settle for less than "meant to be". Secretly I am a romantic. I would like a man who is a Christian, successful, intelligent, and family oriented family man. Sad I am going to have to say this on a profile, but I am NOT looking for intimate encounters. If that is what your looking for don't bother even saying hello please. I guess this is the price we "pay" for a free dating service.Here goes nothing- Highlights about me-In a nutshell. I am a republican... If you voted for Obama we have a serious problem. I'm a church going, God loving, 2nd amendment supporting die hard, 2- In other words I love to dance, I love to go to church, I believe in strong morals/values/standards, I love all music, I love men who know how to treat a woman, Ill drink a beer/glass of wine/throw back a shot, I don't mind getting my hands dirty, or dressing the sassy arm candy with a clutch and some pumps. I am sweet, affectionate, loving, drama free, and I am sure of who I am. If I offended you in anyway with this paragraph.... Please pass by me, I'm tired of the men telling me how I offended them or how I should be more "open minded". This is called plenty of fish for a reason keep your comments to yourself.Below are things I hope to have in common with someone.FAMILY-I am passionate about family. I am proud to say my mom and dad are still married and just as in love as they were in the beginning. Also one of my favorite roles is being an aunt! I just love my nieces and nephews to pieces. They make me so excited to eventually have my own children one day.-military father. So you would need to have your life together to not only date/marry me but to have the approval of my family. PHYSICALLY- I am very active. In college, I played D-1 volleyball so needless to say I love playing court and sand volleyball. As I stated I am active, I'll play any sport with or without a ball. My favorite workouts are biking long distances, tap out, Zumba, and p90x. My wii as a source of exercise as well.... personal favorite "Just Dance 2 & 4 and Zumba" games lol. I believe everyone should dance like no one is watching. HOBBIES- include traveling and vacations. Its expensive but I like two trips a year. My goal is to get to a new country once a year. I'm always up for a trip even if it is not very far away. Many friends would describe me as spontaneous in this department. I have been known to just jump in my car and drive. Outdoors, beaches, cruises I'm in! Music and movies are always a joy! I love all music and dancing is a part of life. Movie quoting is a plus.***: I am not high maintenance or drama driven, I promise. I never got along with those girls. I am pretty easy to please, but here are some attributes that are deal breakers for me.TOPIC OF AGE: 6 years older/younger than me. Older/younger than that, I'm not comfortable withTOPIC OF CHILDREN: I want to bare children of my own with a future husband. I don't want just one. If you are undecided/don't want children, we won't work out. Previous children/child doesn't scare me, but like I said I want a few in addition to that. When I do eventually have children I would love to be a stay at home mom while they grow up. I just believe daycare isn't good for children.TOPIC OF WEIGHT: I am of average weight and build. I am working on it daily to be more fit. My goal is to get to ultimate athletic shape in 6 months. I am currently running & doing Tap Out/P90x videos. Am I there yet? No. Will I? Yes. I am not asking for a guy with a killer bod, but someone who cares about they way they look physically and is health conscious. I prefer you to be alive for our lives together ;). Besides I will be frequently intimate with my hubby and well...... I want to be turned on not off. Not having intimacy would be the downfall of a marriage for me. TOPIC OF PICTURES: Have one or two quality pics available. I don't really care what car you drive, how big your muscles are, or latest tattoos. I just want to see a quality pic of your face.TOPIC OF FINANCES: A man who offers stability and can provide for a future family. It is what any woman wants. We just don't say it verbally. We think it and hope you figure it out.LASTLY....YOUR PROFILE IT MATTERS: If you don't think women read your profile you are mistaken. I'll move on quickly or won't respond if I find your profile less than par. I am not and English teacher but proper English and spelling is important to me. Sarcasm is great as long as you know when enough is enough. I love reading a witty profile. Just quit with the one line *** (Who are you Joey from "Friends" or Chris Catan and Will Ferrel from the ";? How you doing? What's up? Hey! Hello! Ill be a booger and probably give you one liners back or not respond at all.I am not attracted to:Bald men, Large men, Hispanics/Black- I'm not racist. I don't know why... It's like the book "she's just not that into you" I just don't get butterflies in my stomach.REALLY SHORT GUYS- I like a man to be several inches taller than me...why? I don't know I just like it. I guess if I was wearing pumps I still want you taller than me. When it comes to online dating I would say a coffee date for a first date. The way I see it we can be humans long enough for a cup of joe. If the date is looking promising we can get a caffeine high together with another cup of joe. If it is a disaster we can finish one cup and part ways and say it was nice to meet such a great person and wish each other luck. Second date we can commit to a longer time frame it goes well from there we can continue to upgrade. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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