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Phyllis, 35
United States, Connecticut, Wallingford

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About Me

I've been in here before and back. I am looking to meet people but I am picky. I have learned over the years what I want and what I deserve. I am NOT looking for a hook up. If you are, that's all swell and dandy but I'm not your girl. I like men that are smart so if you can not speak the English language properly keep it moving. I want someone that is motivated to continue to do better in life and has goals. Communication is very important to me. I learned years ago that in any relationship for it to succeed you must have a foundation built on communication. As you will find out I am very sarcastic. I love to laugh and be around funny happy people. I believe in living a positive life. I enjoy spending time with friends drinking margaritas or just laughing and having a good time. I really enjoy going to the gym and working out. It's a huge stress relief for me. Meeting someone that likes to workout and lives a healthy lifestyle would be awesome.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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