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Grace, 35

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***update please dont waste my time lifes too short..please take the time to read my entire profile!..i know its long but it will save us both time in the long run...must be age ***..i am more attracted to men younger than me im 35 but im open to someone older....must be near me..im not relocating anywhere anytime soon..i want someone i can see often if anything develops..must have tats or at least like them..must have a job i am very responsible and want the same..moderately attractive.. must honestly want a relationship!!..i dont mind chatting or making friends..i try to at least respond to everyone but sometimes my inbox gets blown upI haven't had much luck finding a man who will respect me, doesn't play games, is loyal, trustworthy, not a total douchebag, knows what he wants , and truly wants a future with someone..but I havent given up hope yet..life is short and time is ticking away.I am a hard working woman with my sh*ttogether..I have two kids..my daughter is 18 and my son is 15..my son lives at home with me..I own my own home..I pay my own bills...and I think I'm lookin pretty good for a 35 yr old woman. I am a size 10 and getting smaller. I work hard and exercise so I am in decent shape. I am not a high maintenance woman but give me an hour in the bathroom and I will make you say wow! I've been told I don't make a man feel needed. Life has thrown alot of bullsh*t my way and out of necessity I learned to take care of myself. I need a man to love and respect me who will be there for me no matter what. I need a man who will kickass for me if someone hurts me in any way. A man who makes me feel protected from the ****ed up worId we live in. I probably seem like a strong independant woman who noone could crack. On the inside I have a heart of gold and would give someone the shirt off my back but it gets me hurt over and over again.I like to workout, watch movies, spend time outdoors, camping, swimming, reading, taking care of my home..I've always been attracted to backwoods tattooed country boy types because I'm a tattooed country girl myself..Im a girl who doesnt mind gettin dirty goin muddin or fishing..but i clean up welI:).. don't like to party or hang out in bars anymore..done my share of that and grew up..I will go occassionally just for something to do and because I love to play pool..I drink on a rare occassion..again done my share of that in the past.I am looking for someone to date, get to know, and go from there..I had a bad habit of jumping into relationships too soon and not taking the time to see them for who they really are..I want something real but I am not in a hurry..I want to meet someone within a 20mile radius..I dont want to do all the driving either.A good date for me is grabbing a bite to eat, talking, bowling, play pool, and that will allow us to relax and talk. First dates are always awkward.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kitty

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am a family girl...my family is important to me and I enjoy hanging out and laughing with them. I have a 3 year old daughter who's either a genius, or has manipulated me into thinking so, which would still make her pretty darn smart. She's the funniest kid I know, and adorable too. Of course, there's no way I could be biased, right?! I love yard work like mowing and weed eating...a little weird, maybe. But sometimes manual labor just feels good. I haven't had time lately to devote to my running passion, but I miss it. So, I'm going to make time to get back to what I love. For me, running is my "me" time. There is nothing that makes me feel more alive and present in life than when I'm running. I love it, and I crave it. It's where I figure out problems, celebrate successes, shake off stress....and pretty much just rock out. ;)I am pretty laid back and very outgoing. I get along well with most everyone I meet regardless of any differences.$ha, I will still be able to find common ground and carry on a conversation. I love trying new things (like Korean food. HATED it!) and experimenting with new activities (ran my first 5K race. LOVED it!) I like sports, but I can be goofily clumsy and uncoordinated. Don't panic, it's more endearing than embarrassing. My golf swing is incredibly awkward. I can't help it! My boobs get in the way. LolI love music. It's a big part of my life. In fact, I kinda think there should just be a soundtrack-of-my-life that plays everywhere I go. ha! Pretty much anything, as long as you put thought and effort into it. Just dont ask ME to plan it. You are a man. Take charge. That's what makes this fun!

  • Leta

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    If you are normal continue reading! This may be long for a profile, but I'd rather you have it in black & white. Men like that right......no grey area? What am I looking for? I'm looking for a dating relationship first with the possibility of a long term relationship. If all works out maybe we are meant for each other. The end result I hope will begin in marriage our slice of "happy ever after". (Kids, pets, house, grow old) I have never been married. Why? Quite frankly I just haven't met the guy I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I am not willing to settle for less than "meant to be". Secretly I am a romantic. I would like a man who is a Christian, successful, intelligent, and family oriented family man. Sad I am going to have to say this on a profile, but I am NOT looking for intimate encounters. If that is what your looking for don't bother even saying hello please. I guess this is the price we "pay" for a free dating service.Here goes nothing- Highlights about me-In a nutshell. I am a republican... If you voted for Obama we have a serious problem. I'm a church going, God loving, 2nd amendment supporting die hard, 2- In other words I love to dance, I love to go to church, I believe in strong morals/values/standards, I love all music, I love men who know how to treat a woman, Ill drink a beer/glass of wine/throw back a shot, I don't mind getting my hands dirty, or dressing the sassy arm candy with a clutch and some pumps. I am sweet, affectionate, loving, drama free, and I am sure of who I am. If I offended you in anyway with this paragraph.... Please pass by me, I'm tired of the men telling me how I offended them or how I should be more "open minded". This is called plenty of fish for a reason keep your comments to yourself.Below are things I hope to have in common with someone.FAMILY-I am passionate about family. I am proud to say my mom and dad are still married and just as in love as they were in the beginning. Also one of my favorite roles is being an aunt! I just love my nieces and nephews to pieces. They make me so excited to eventually have my own children one day.-military father. So you would need to have your life together to not only date/marry me but to have the approval of my family. PHYSICALLY- I am very active. In college, I played D-1 volleyball so needless to say I love playing court and sand volleyball. As I stated I am active, I'll play any sport with or without a ball. My favorite workouts are biking long distances, tap out, Zumba, and p90x. My wii as a source of exercise as well.... personal favorite "Just Dance 2 & 4 and Zumba" games lol. I believe everyone should dance like no one is watching. HOBBIES- include traveling and vacations. Its expensive but I like two trips a year. My goal is to get to a new country once a year. I'm always up for a trip even if it is not very far away. Many friends would describe me as spontaneous in this department. I have been known to just jump in my car and drive. Outdoors, beaches, cruises I'm in! Music and movies are always a joy! I love all music and dancing is a part of life. Movie quoting is a plus.***: I am not high maintenance or drama driven, I promise. I never got along with those girls. I am pretty easy to please, but here are some attributes that are deal breakers for me.TOPIC OF AGE: 6 years older/younger than me. Older/younger than that, I'm not comfortable withTOPIC OF CHILDREN: I want to bare children of my own with a future husband. I don't want just one. If you are undecided/don't want children, we won't work out. Previous children/child doesn't scare me, but like I said I want a few in addition to that. When I do eventually have children I would love to be a stay at home mom while they grow up. I just believe daycare isn't good for children.TOPIC OF WEIGHT: I am of average weight and build. I am working on it daily to be more fit. My goal is to get to ultimate athletic shape in 6 months. I am currently running & doing Tap Out/P90x videos. Am I there yet? No. Will I? Yes. I am not asking for a guy with a killer bod, but someone who cares about they way they look physically and is health conscious. I prefer you to be alive for our lives together ;). Besides I will be frequently intimate with my hubby and well...... I want to be turned on not off. Not having intimacy would be the downfall of a marriage for me. TOPIC OF PICTURES: Have one or two quality pics available. I don't really care what car you drive, how big your muscles are, or latest tattoos. I just want to see a quality pic of your face.TOPIC OF FINANCES: A man who offers stability and can provide for a future family. It is what any woman wants. We just don't say it verbally. We think it and hope you figure it out.LASTLY....YOUR PROFILE IT MATTERS: If you don't think women read your profile you are mistaken. I'll move on quickly or won't respond if I find your profile less than par. I am not and English teacher but proper English and spelling is important to me. Sarcasm is great as long as you know when enough is enough. I love reading a witty profile. Just quit with the one line *** (Who are you Joey from "Friends" or Chris Catan and Will Ferrel from the ";? How you doing? What's up? Hey! Hello! Ill be a booger and probably give you one liners back or not respond at all.I am not attracted to:Bald men, Large men, Hispanics/Black- I'm not racist. I don't know why... It's like the book "she's just not that into you" I just don't get butterflies in my stomach.REALLY SHORT GUYS- I like a man to be several inches taller than me...why? I don't know I just like it. I guess if I was wearing pumps I still want you taller than me. When it comes to online dating I would say a coffee date for a first date. The way I see it we can be humans long enough for a cup of joe. If the date is looking promising we can get a caffeine high together with another cup of joe. If it is a disaster we can finish one cup and part ways and say it was nice to meet such a great person and wish each other luck. Second date we can commit to a longer time frame it goes well from there we can continue to upgrade. :)

  • Kris

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    My hobbies are reading thrillers or smutty romances. I also like to play RPG, and shoot them up Playstation games (Not so much a fan of zombie games.) At some point I'd like to go back to school and get another degree but before I go I need to know what I want to go back for. I've had a hard time of it. The last three years have been especially hard on me. I have a big heart, and unfortunately a bigger ass. I need to be with someone who's going to see the person inside and help me to achieve the person I want to be on the outside. Someone who isn't going to yell at me when he's frustrated with me, and someone who isn't going to hurt me every time I do something that upsets him.My taste in music is broad, I like mostly 80's and 90's music but I enjoy classical and the arts. I can for the most part tolerate most rap music; and enjoy techno mostly for the dance part of it. I go to karaoke almost every week, sometimes twice a week because I'm a karaoke junky. I don't do many sports on land, but I love to swim, even if I can't do it everyday.Men who are afraid of big families, and large groups of friends need not respond. I can be a homebody but I like to go out with my friends, and I come from a large family on my mom's side. What's a date?

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