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Colette, 51
United States, Connecticut, Norwich

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I want to start by saying that the three things that keep a long lasting relationship with me is communication, honesty and trust. I basically am an open book. WHAT YOU SEE IS WHAT YOU GET no reading in between the lines . I like to treat people the same as I would like to be treated. No games, gossip or drama here. Keep it real and simple . Relationships take time and I`m in no rush . I recently lost my sig. other to lung cancer alit over a yr. ago. He was my best friend and, it is because of him I am the person I am today. Independent ,5 yrs. sober and comfortable in my own skin. I was once lost and now I`m found .The lord is carrying me and, there is only one set of footprints in the sand . I have faith . I see the glass ***full and I`m usually optimistic . I have learned so much in life and am still doing so. I realize that I was once very attractive on the outside and so ugly on the in side ,I used my looks to get what ever I wanted and did not even blink an eye to whom I was hurting .I was cold and selfish . Today, well .... I have wrinkles, crows feet salt and pepper hair soft skin, upper denture and a parcel on the bottom "THATS RIGHT " I thought id throw that out there. "TOLD YOU THAT I WAS HONEST lololol. I have to tell you ..... its all good ! SO GENTELMEN IF YOUR LOOKIN FOR BARBIE .....I wish you well. however if your looking for a companion ,an independent , down to earth cool chick "so I been told . someone to laugh and keep you comfortable in my presence "then I may be that girl. I also have 4 tattoos "their oldies". don't mind cycles and I do go to church on Sunday "; pastor Fred is pretty cool and I am meeting a few decent people there . I have a mortgage and a full time job Ii am a bakery mgr.9 yrs. with the same company. I have 2 small dogs "their old and STINKY" lolololol gotta love um. well you get the pic. that's all for now ....thanks for listening.....until then. " meet at the jetty ,bring your fishing gear ."NOT THE BAR SILLY " remember I don't drink and am not looking for anyone that does .

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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