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Ruby, 51
United States, Connecticut, Norwich

Offline, last seen Sat, 18 Apr 2026 10:30:56

About Me

I am hoping to find someone that shares an interest in Christianity.Christianity is very important to me.I am not a holy roller (far from it)And a healthy life style.I am not looking for casual sex, not interested in "separated" or "just dating"I'll make a deal; dont try to use me for sex and I wont use you for money.I AM NOT INTERESTED IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPSIts pretty simple really, looking for someone close to my age within a reasonable distancedoesn't work nights (we would would rarely see each other)Clicking yes on the meet me option is nice, but sending a message is betterI am not a phone person, dont mind talking for a few minutes, but i am not into hanging on the phone. First date does not include the hour a person wants to hang on the phone to get to know me.For a first meeting i would like to go for coffee somewhere very public.I dont drink alcohol so meeting for a drink is not a good date for mereason being a healthy life styleI noticed that in this time of equality most men want the women to initiate first contact.At the risk of seeming uninterested I will not be that person. Once there is a friendship or possibility of connection then I have no problem initiating or asserting myself.Pls dont depend on me to request phone contact or a meeting.I think that it is something the gentleman should do.Also a first meeting should be in the female's area.These are little things to expect, if this is an issue from first contact then there doesn't seem any point in going any further.Sorry to seem uncompromising.There is plenty time for compromise in the future.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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